How Escorts/MPAs Can Ruin Your Life

[Massagie888]

Im not even going to touch on the money aspect as that one is obvious but here are some other ways sps ruin lives.

1. You Lose Your Drive/Hunger

After seeing sps too often you will start to lose your drive and or hunger. Theres a long scientific explanation but basically you are getting such a high blast of dopamine so often from them that you mind tells you that everything is fine and you dont need to keep pushing or "hunting". Instead of engaging in new novel behaviours (usually provide dopamine boost) you just go back to sps. This can effect your other hobbies/job/business etc. as well as you do just enough to keep the pussy fund alive and never take things to the next level.

2. You Get Addicted

See sps too much and you will get addicted. 3X a week is probably the max anyone should go. Its basically exactly like drug addiction and you need to go more and more to maintain the same "high". You are basically frying your dopamine receptors and wont be able to experience pleasure from anything else (just like drug addicts).

3. You Get Played

All of the popular sps/mpas are pure players. They are ruthless predators that will think nothing of taking every last $ from you and crushing your hopes and dreams. Just another day at the office for them. They also dont give a shit about you despite them always saying its "only for you"

4. You Lose Interest In "Normal" Girls

Many guys punch above their weight class when they see sps and are able to see girls much hotter than they are used to. Another set of guys can get much hotter normal girls but the sex with them is so terrible they go back to sps. Basically again it goes back to dopamine, you cant go "down a level" and always have to keep upping your stimuli. Normal girls will seem boring to you if you go deep int his addiction.

5. You Get Used To Insta-Gratification

Self explanatory makes it diffucult to have to work for something long term if you are always used to getting top quality pussy just by paying $300. This spills into other areas of like as well like gym/job/business. Basically the makes you the exact opposite of someone who is into personal development.

6. You think an erratic and unstable lifestyle is "normal"

See too many sps and you will see how erratic and unstable their lifestyle is. I see girls who regularly wake up at 3PM, go drinking all night when they are no longer 20 somethings, and generally just flake out randomly. Only an sp would ask you to go drinking on a Tuesday at 11PM while no longer being in their 20s.

Anyway good luck to you all and hope you dont get addicted. Im hoping to be out of this hobby for good....

 

[DickSlinger]

Im not even going to touch on the money aspect as that one is obvious but here are some other ways sps ruin lives.

1. You Lose Your Drive/Hunger

After seeing sps too often you will start to lose your drive and or hunger. Theres a long scientific explanation but basically you are getting such a high blast of dopamine so often from them that you mind tells you that everything is fine and you dont need to keep pushing or "hunting". Instead of engaging in new novel behaviours (usually provide dopamine boost) you just go back to sps. This can effect your other hobbies/job/business etc. as well as you do just enough to keep the pussy fund alive and never take things to the next level.

2. You Get Addicted

See sps too much and you will get addicted. 3X a week is probably the max anyone should go. Its basically exactly like drug addiction and you need to go more and more to maintain the same "high". You are basically frying your dopamine receptors and wont be able to experience pleasure from anything else (just like drug addicts).

3. You Get Played

All of the popular sps/mpas are pure players. They are ruthless predators that will think nothing of taking every last $ from you and crushing your hopes and dreams. Just another day at the office for them. They also dont give a shit about you despite them always saying its "only for you"

4. You Lose Interest In "Normal" Girls

Many guys punch above their weight class when they see sps and are able to see girls much hotter than they are used to. Another set of guys can get much hotter normal girls but the sex with them is so terrible they go back to sps. Basically again it goes back to dopamine, you cant go "down a level" and always have to keep upping your stimuli. Normal girls will seem boring to you if you go deep int his addiction.

5. You Get Used To Insta-Gratification

Self explanatory makes it diffucult to have to work for something long term if you are always used to getting top quality pussy just by paying $300. This spills into other areas of like as well like gym/job/business. Basically the makes you the exact opposite of someone who is into personal development.

6. You think an erratic and unstable lifestyle is "normal"

See too many sps and you will see how erratic and unstable their lifestyle is. I see girls who regularly wake up at 3PM, go drinking all night when they are no longer 20 somethings, and generally just flake out randomly. Only an sp would ask you to go drinking on a Tuesday at 11PM while no longer being in their 20s.

Anyway good luck to you all and hope you dont get addicted. Im hoping to be out of this hobby for good....

It really isn't hard to stop hobby. I did it..

 

[IronHearted]

It really isn't hard to stop hobby. I did it..

You did it after getting yourself into credit card debt and cannot even afford to pay rent?

 

[Massagie888]

It really isn't hard to stop hobby. I did it..

Thats good, be glad it was easy for you but not sure why your on a sex review forum then lol.

But I think its different for everyone.

I was able to quit smoking on my first try with no help(after 1.5 decades of smoking), quit weed as well on my first try while others struggle for years with those habits.

 

[IronHearted]

1. You Lose Your Drive/Hunger

This true to some extent, after having sex with a hot girl, I don't feel I need other hobbies, that doesn't last long though. Right now I have multiple hobbies other than whoring, such as gay bottom spotting.

2. You Get Addicted

It's normal and healthy to have a sex life. I don't consider it an addition.

3. You Get Played

Never. I got shitty service but I never got played.

5 You Lose Interest In "Normal" Girls.

They are probably not good enough for me in the first place. I'm not aroused by average looking women because they're not good-looking, not because I had sex with way hotter chicks.

5. You Get Used To Insta-Gratification

If I can afford $300, why not. Use this as rule of thumb, if you don't want a woman to be your wife, don't waste time on her.

6. You think an erratic and unstable lifestyle is "normal"

Actually my worldview is pretty stable, I'm not a teenager easily influenced by what I see. And I don't go out drinking at all.

 

[Massagie888]

1. You Lose Your Drive/Hunger

This true to some extent, after having sex with a hot girl, I don't feel I need other hobbies, that doesn't last long though. Right now I have multiple hobbies other than whoring, such as gay bottom spotting.

LOL gay bottom spotting

2. You Get Addicted

It's normal and healthy to have a sex life. I don't consider it an addition.

3X a week and no back to back bookings and you are ok. Over this and you are tempting fate. Food is natural and healthy too but people get addicted all the time and use it as a coping mechanism and become fat fucks.

3. You Get Played

Never. I got shitty service but I never got played.

Your lucky I never got played after years of hobbying, until today. Im currently being played hard by one girl...

5 You Lose Interest In "Normal" Girls.

They are probably not good enough for me in the first place. I'm not aroused by average looking women because they're not good-looking, not because I had sex with way hotter chicks.

Fair point but the good looking girls are also shit at sex. Good luck getting more than a 30s bj from the real stunners.

5. You Get Used To Insta-Gratification

If I can afford $300, why not. Use this as rule of thumb, if you don't want a woman to be your wife, don't waste time on her.

I can afford to eat out everyday but its not a good idea because the food is unhealthy. Problem is when you meet a girl who could be your wife, if she wasnt a mercenary escort lol

6. You think an erratic and unstable lifestyle is "normal"

Actually my worldview is pretty stable, I'm not a teenager easily influenced by what I see. And I don't go out drinking at all.

Im not influenced by people usually either but you hang around certain type of people long enough and they do rub off on you. I stopped drinking as well for years but started up again recently so my date would feel less awkward lol

 

[Deleted member 64273]

The whole point of the hobby is to have sex or other naked fun with beautiful women we normally wouldn't have a chance with. A wise man once told me "hobby within your means and it don't mean nothing when you hobby".

 

[DickSlinger]

Thats good, be glad it was easy for you but not sure why your on a sex review forum then lol.

But I think its different for everyone.

I was able to quit smoking on my first try with no help(after 1.5 decades of smoking), quit weed as well on my first try while others struggle for years with those habits.

I come here because its entertainment if i need something amusing to read while Im taking a shit

 

[DickSlinger]

You did it after getting yourself into credit card debt and cannot even afford to pay rent?

No. Its im unemployed and realized that going to mpa is a waste of money. I never did extra but even if i did, still waste of money. I felt stupid spending so much. Even when i had a job. Plus it doesn't do much for me to have a girl pretend to stroke my ego. Its lame. That's why I can't figure how half the people on this board get played. Its so painfully obvious everything is fake.

 

[topo112]

No. Its im unemployed and realized that going to mpa is a waste of money. I never did extra but even if i did, still waste of money. I felt stupid spending so much. Even when i had a job. Plus it doesn't do much for me to have a girl pretend to stroke my ego. Its lame. That's why I can't figure how half the people on this board get played. Its so painfully obvious everything is fake.

After having fun I can't help asking myself what I could've bought with that coin. $250 with an mpa is ok, but $500 a month is too much. Some guys go 3 times $750 that's a great car monthly payment. On the other hand... we all are getting old, we won't score when we get old, and all that saved money casinos are gonna vacuum cause we're gonna be bored ( especially in the middle of winter ). So enjoy responsibly my friends, and remember money no honey, even from your favourite mpas/sps.

 

[DickSlinger]

After having fun I can't help asking myself what I could've bought with that coin. $250 with an mpa is ok, but $500 a month is too much. Some guys go 3 times $750 that's a great car monthly payment. On the other hand... we all are getting old, we won't score when we get old, and all that saved money casinos are gonna vacuum cause we're gonna be bored ( especially in the middle of winter ). So enjoy responsibly my friends, and remember money no honey, even from your favourite mpas/sps.

Why not just save your coin for retirement. Move to like Thailand. Live like a king and fuck thai girls for a lot less than here. Even if you got bored of thai you could fly to Hong Kong and bang HK hotties. Its only like a 2 hr flight and costs next to nothing. Use your brains not your cock. All the $$ you give these mpas they're going on lavish holiday while you working just to afford the next session.

 

[DickSlinger]

If you dont have a job obviously its a huge waste of money and you are good to stop.

This is a ballers hobby no doubt.

Many of the guys on here are married and after being treated like shit by their wives anyone stroking their ego is a godsend.

For me Im a seasoned pro and I can tell how obviously fake 99/100 of these girls are, even the very popular ones. But you meet 1/100 who is such a fucking good actress that you know inside its all fake you dont care, and get played lol

Yea and most guy should have enough of a brain to not get hitched with a cunt. No doubt Its a ballers hobby. The guys that aren't balling this is the only thing they spend money on. Its expensive and not worth it. You can get a civie and save money. Just don't get caught up with the gold diggers, cunts, or extreme feminist.

 

[Deyannis]

I respect the women who have a go at this industry, but once I read the article posted here, I changed my sensibilities: I will retire comfortably at 54, enjoy my home in Europe for several months of every year, and accept the trade off with gratitude! Less intimacy, but far more money and personal happiness than all these women will ever realize!

https://medium.com/matter/sex-is-sex-but-money-is-money-e7c10091713f

 

[DickSlinger]

I respect the women who have a go at this industry, but once I read the article posted here, I changed my sensibilities: I will retire comfortably at 54, enjoy my home in Europe for several months of every year, and accept the trade off with gratitude! Less intimacy, but far more money and personal happiness than all these women will ever realize!

https://medium.com/matter/sex-is-sex-but-money-is-money-e7c10091713f

She sounds like a cunt

 

[Ursus]

Who cares what a woman thinks of you? A woman is less than a man. So, why would you care what any woman thinks of you?

It's the equivalent to what some teenage degenerate thinks of you who hangs out at the local plaza. Who the fuck cares about those people?

 

[erectboy]

And I guess having a family just makes the stake even higher?

 

[freewilly416]

Interesting post

I can see how this can be addictive and bad for you, but I don't blame the MPA/SP. To be honest, financially I have no issue at all paying $300 for a massage, but I worry I get used to this not sure how regular relationships with women could compare.

Temptations...

 

[krayjee]

Interesting post

I can see how this can be addictive and bad for you, but I don't blame the MPA/SP. To be honest, financially I have no issue at all paying $300 for a massage, but I worry I get used to this not sure how regular relationships with women could compare.

Temptations...

If you get used to this your regular relation with your civilian girl will change quite dramatically. I have befriended with a few youg guys who visit E&M regularly all of whom have good looking girl friends. Some visist E&M more than once a week. So I asked them why are they there quite often when you have beautiful girlfriends. All they said was the kind of experience they get at the spa was very different and the kind of touch and feels that they cannot get from their girlfriends.

 

[freewilly416]

If you get used to this your regular relation with your civilian girl will change quite dramatically. I have befriended with a few youg guys who visit E&M regularly all of whom have good looking girl friends. Some visist E&M more than once a week. So I asked them why are they there quite often when you have beautiful girlfriends. All they said was the kind of experience they get at the spa was very different and the kind of touch and feels that they cannot get from their girlfriends.

I'm in similar boat. Not to be boastful but I have never had issues getting attention of women and have an attractive partner. People that know me would never expect me to pay for services of a woman. For me it's just the thrill of doing something covert, getting off with a beautiful stranger, and perhaps a bit of an ego stroke. I have avoided FS as I have some anxiety opening that door - not sure why, perhaps fear of bringing home an STI, or just crossing the line, but the urge to try it is building.

How does E&M compare to Premier? Similar class of ladies? Discreetness? Really don't like places with busy waiting rooms - don't want to run into anyone and it's just a bit awkward.

 

[topo112]

Well I did it.

Saw my favorite Sp for the last time, didnt tell her this. Hilarious she knew something was up and started to visibly get "jealous" asking me to stay longer and using all her GFE tricks.

She asked me why I stopped texting her, I told her Im not the texting type and she literally screamed "YOU ALWAYS USED TO" lol .These girls are like little children sometimes in how they act.

Started talking about taking me on vacation with her to europe lol. I dont want to be trapped with the same girl for a week lol

Anyway Im sure she will be fine and stay busy without me, as the market is shit but I am officially done with the low quality chicks in this hobby. I did consider her very high quality but she was a gem.

100K car and normal GF sound like much better uses for my money.

Goodbye to this forum as well (forreal this time lol), as I dont want anything to do with this hobby anymore.

Did she change that badly? How can she go from being a gem to low quality? Did you find out she does extras to other guys and you thought it was only you getting it so you don't feel do especial anymore? Did you see her with her boyfriend? Just curious!!!