Chat Competitive SWs

[UsefulIdiot]

I have been seeing one SW a lot recently (Cici from E-Spa) and consequently not much is new with me so I have not had much to say. In a DM to me another member talked about an SW we both know who loves to go with guys who have favorites that she works with. We have all known women like that - a little competition gets their motor running. One SW, during my third time with her, asked me how she could become my favorite. I was taken by surprise and like an idiot I had nothing to say, but I was really enjoying what she was doing (and I was high). After being with one SW at a spa sometimes I see other SWs in the hall that I know. That can be awkward, but there are those who get flirty and want to see me next time. In one case she hinted that BBFS might be on the table. Another would grab my ass or dick. In some cases the SW is trying steal a client to make more money, but in other cases it is about more than that. Like when you start dating an attractive women and suddenly other women get interested in you. Have you guys experienced this kind of competition?

Also, I am curious about another scenario. I had a frustrating and disappointing experience with one SW at E-Spa (I am not naming names). She was happy to take my money for a full hour but was eager to get things finished and move onto the next customer. A good kisser with a good body and some charm but an under performer. She kept watching the monitors the whole time saying that she was looking for LE, but it was obvious she was trying to make as much money as possible, watching customers come in. And her self confidence was way out of proportion to her performance. She was so distracted and in such a hurry that she could not get me off and I had to finish myself. I got quite pissed off at her, and while I did not say much it was obvious and she promised some free time and BBBJ the next time. I saw her in the hall a couple more times while visiting with other SWs and she kept trying to get me to go with her again, promising better service and discounts. Personally I do not think things would improve much, and I am still pissed at her, but I am curious to see if what kind of effort she would make, especially after her seeing me repeat with others there. So I guess my question is have you ever had an SW give you shitty service, apologize and give you great service the next time after she has seen you choosing other SWs over her?

 

[Deleted member 101953]

Like when you start dating an attractive women and suddenly other women get interested in you. Have you guys experienced this kind of competition?

Usually happens to married men..

 

[Mav]

For me personally, if things are good and go bad, I do not return. Too many fish in the sea

 

[LuckyShot]

I have been seeing one SW a lot recently (Cici from E-Spa) and consequently not much is new with me so I have not had much to say. In a DM to me another member talked about an SW we both know who loves to go with guys who have favorites that she works with. We have all known women like that - a little competition gets their motor running. One SW, during my third time with her, asked me how she could become my favorite. I was taken by surprise and like an idiot I had nothing to say, but I was really enjoying what she was doing (and I was high). After being with one SW at a spa sometimes I see other SWs in the hall that I know. That can be awkward, but there are those who get flirty and want to see me next time. In one case she hinted that BBFS might be on the table. Another would grab my ass or dick. In some cases the SW is trying steal a client to make more money, but in other cases it is about more than that. Like when you start dating an attractive women and suddenly other women get interested in you. Have you guys experienced this kind of competition?

Also, I am curious about another scenario. I had a frustrating and disappointing experience with one SW at E-Spa (I am not naming names). She was happy to take my money for a full hour but was eager to get things finished and move onto the next customer. A good kisser with a good body and some charm but an under performer. She kept watching the monitors the whole time saying that she was looking for LE, but it was obvious she was trying to make as much money as possible, watching customers come in. And her self confidence was way out of proportion to her performance. She was so distracted and in such a hurry that she could not get me off and I had to finish myself. I got quite pissed off at her, and while I did not say much it was obvious and she promised some free time and BBBJ the next time. I saw her in the hall a couple more times while visiting with other SWs and she kept trying to get me to go with her again, promising better service and discounts. Personally I do not think things would improve much, and I am still pissed at her, but I am curious to see if what kind of effort she would make, especially after her seeing me repeat with others there. So I guess my question is have you ever had an SW give you shitty service, apologize and give you great service the next time after she has seen you choosing other SWs over her?

It’s very normal for girls in this industry to get jealous and want all the business for themselves especially if they know you are a good tipper. But it makes sense this is their income and it’s not like they have a salary or hourly wage they can rely on all their income to support themselves comes from getting customers and tips.

Also yes to the second question I find very often especially with one of my very good regulars after seeing her too much she might give me a mediocre to bad session and notice I am upset or disappointed when leaving and the very next time I see her it’s one of the best sessions all over again probably because she’s afraid of losing me as a customer. Just remember this is a highly competitive field there are 1000s of girls to choose from and these girls know it and they need to give you a reason to see them again

 

[Deleted member 101953]

I find very often especially with one of my very good regulars after seeing her too much she might give me a mediocre to bad session and notice I am upset or disappointed when leaving and the very next time I see her it’s one of the best sessions all over again

Yes, I worry about that too..Maybe limit to seeing her once a month? That could help a bit..No?

 

[UsefulIdiot]

If you see her only once per 30 days then won't she forget about you? She must have fucked hundreds of guys in that timespan.

For me to have an SW become a regular there must be some personal connection. Consequently it is unlikely that they would forget me after a month or two. Some SWs remember quite a bit. At least with one SW I am convinced that she actually writes down notes on what her customers like.

 

[Deleted member 101953]

If you see her only once per 30 days then won't she forget about you? She must have fucked hundreds of guys in that timespan.

You'd be surprised how good of a memory these girls can remember a client they haven't seen in a long time..

 

[Spawarrior99]

I have been seeing one SW a lot recently (Cici from E-Spa) and consequently not much is new with me so I have not had much to say. In a DM to me another member talked about an SW we both know who loves to go with guys who have favorites that she works with. We have all known women like that - a little competition gets their motor running. One SW, during my third time with her, asked me how she could become my favorite. I was taken by surprise and like an idiot I had nothing to say, but I was really enjoying what she was doing (and I was high). After being with one SW at a spa sometimes I see other SWs in the hall that I know. That can be awkward, but there are those who get flirty and want to see me next time. In one case she hinted that BBFS might be on the table. Another would grab my ass or dick. In some cases the SW is trying steal a client to make more money, but in other cases it is about more than that. Like when you start dating an attractive women and suddenly other women get interested in you. Have you guys experienced this kind of competition?

Also, I am curious about another scenario. I had a frustrating and disappointing experience with one SW at E-Spa (I am not naming names). She was happy to take my money for a full hour but was eager to get things finished and move onto the next customer. A good kisser with a good body and some charm but an under performer. She kept watching the monitors the whole time saying that she was looking for LE, but it was obvious she was trying to make as much money as possible, watching customers come in. And her self confidence was way out of proportion to her performance. She was so distracted and in such a hurry that she could not get me off and I had to finish myself. I got quite pissed off at her, and while I did not say much it was obvious and she promised some free time and BBBJ the next time. I saw her in the hall a couple more times while visiting with other SWs and she kept trying to get me to go with her again, promising better service and discounts. Personally I do not think things would improve much, and I am still pissed at her, but I am curious to see if what kind of effort she would make, especially after her seeing me repeat with others there. So I guess my question is have you ever had an SW give you shitty service, apologize and give you great service the next time after she has seen you choosing other SWs over her?

 

[Spawarrior99]

If your getting quality. best not talk about it. Unless its not quality, then let others yap.

 

[Spawarrior99]

For me to have an SW become a regular there must be some personal connection. Consequently it is unlikely that they would forget me after a month or two. Some SWs remember quite a bit. At least with one SW I am convinced that she actually writes down notes on what her customers like.

You joined January 2020 just when spas were closing right?

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Can we get back to the subject of competitive SWs please?

 

[Spawarrior99]

Cant answer the question useful?

 

[UsefulIdiot]

You joined January 2020 just when spas were closing right?

I was a lurker for a year before that. Why do you ask. And what was the point of the picture of the beautiful ass?

 

[Spawarrior99]

I was a lurker for a year before that. Why do you ask. And what was the point of the picture of the beautiful ass?

Thanks for the response.

 

[Spawarrior99]

Probably..Idk
It's not easy being black tho lol

U keep being black a black dude. and get your prison ass ass off
your posts are fucking stupid.

 

[LuckyShot]

Can we get back to the subject of competitive SWs please?

SpaWarrior is a troll and goes into every thread on this site posting nonsense, best to just ignore him and hope everyone else does as well until he goes away

 

[eyeswideshut]

she promised some free time and BBBJ the next time

I've heard the 'next time I'll ...' bs so much I don't pay much attention to it beyond making a mental note to avoid the person if the session wasn't good. If it was above average then I'll be tempted to go back. In your case it might work out since she knows you go there regularly but I'd only recommend it if you're really into her

my question is have you ever had an SW give you shitty service, apologize and give you great service the next time

I have had a regular give a not-so-great session and promise to do better next time and she totally delivered

 

[UsefulIdiot]

I've heard the 'next time I'll ...' bs so much I don't pay much attention to it beyond making a mental note to avoid the person if the session wasn't good. If it was above average then I'll be tempted to go back. In your case it might work out since she knows you go there regularly but I'd only recommend it if you're really into her


I have had a regular give a not-so-great session and promise to do better next time and she totally delivered

I had a regular who was usually great but occasionally would have an off day. I would not say anything, paid her the amount I usually did and was gracious about it. And the subsequent sessions were always amazing. Sometimes to get the best out of a woman, if she has character, you need to be kind when she is having a bad day.

 

[eyeswideshut]

I had a regular who was usually great but occasionally would have an off day. I would not say anything, paid her the amount I usually did and was gracious about it. And the subsequent sessions were always amazing. Sometimes to get the best out of a woman, if she has character, you need to be kind when she is having a bad day.

Right, good policy for regulars

In your question though she ain't a regular and you sound like your not too sure of her character just yet

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Right, good policy for regulars

In your question though she ain't a regular and you sound like your not too sure of her character just yet

In post 21 I was talking about another person, not the person in post 1 who gave bad service the first time. The one in post 21 works at Fantasy Spa. She was a regular until I posted too much about her. I fucked up. A pity. I really liked her. But life goes on and I have new regulars. Lesson learned.