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[jess_babe863]

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[Plumeria Passion]

Sorry to hear mate

Welcome back GMB

Really sorry to hear of your situation and I can appreciate how might
feel as I too have previously dated a lady who was happy to be with me
until the "calling" of her Ex was too much that she had to drop me and go running back to him !

Sometimes I think some of the women out there who have been used to being treated "mean" have issues accepting guys that treat them with some respect, it may feel "unnatural" and hence their return to their Ex.
A bit of fearing the unknown ? Just some theories, who really knows sometimes and I sometimes question myself on why I persist with trying
to find a girlReviewiend and a relationship............

I wish I had all the answers, but I don't !

 

[Possibly Right]

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[Pompal 09.]

You have my unreserved sympathy GingerBreadMan. It could happen to any of us. We males are the hunter-gatherers. Women are the nurturers, despite the feminist push. It's a cruel fact. I have no doubt that women use the power of the pussy to their own advaneforum.xxxe. They can't help it. It's programmed into them. I love women like you wouldn't believe. You just have to factor in that they will drop you in favour of a more capable provider at the drop of a hat. I'm not saying men are perfect. My personal opinion is we tend to be a bit promiscuous. We're programmed that way. I've had MANY short term and long term relationships. In all cases, the bottom line has been not who I am, but what I can do for them, in terms of satisfying their needs for security, companionship, sex, and reproduction. When you realise these things, you'll find peace and happiness.

 

[Ugly]

Hey Royceeeee I feel there maybe some truth in what you have remarked on here and oh yeah by the way I do plan on answering your email very soon my deepest apologies I have been very bizy with my business, work, website and other things but do plan on answering your very vallid questions.

GMB all I can say to you is please look at this woman as an individual whom has done this hurtful thing to you and not at all women, please don't let one or a bunch of bad apples spoil the whole tree or beautiful orchid of them.

Women are not cruel, men are not cruel people are or can be, we are the only species on this planet whom kill or maim for the pleasure priciple, animals have their shit sorted and we call THEM animals.

GMB don't let this change your opinion of all women as some woment let their experiences change their views of all men too just like Royce explained sometimes women are hesitant or 'on the back foot' when treated nicely because they are not used to respect and these women as some men, I feel, should buy themselves a mirror and have a deep look at why and whom they choose for company. Self analysis when done correctly can be a very shocking realisation for an individual I had to do it once hahaha and then decided on a major personality re-construction LOL

Call me full of shit Robyn xXx

 

[dfuerstcat]

Merlin in all your wisdom and experience I find your post on women a limited resource, have you tried seeing us as individuals?

You have sympathy - a negative emotion, have you tried empathasising?

I personally (as a woman) have no desire for a provider, security or reproduction, I have plenty of sex hehe and more is always welcomed, I am more than satisfied with what I have and who I am as a person and a woman.

You mentioned companionship and oh yes indeed we are creatures of comfort (male and female) to an extent and desire to be desired, needed and wanted. Good wholesome companionship is hard to find in todays society all you have to do is read GBMs first post above to see just a small example of that but to segregate the sexes I have never believed in we fit like a glove so why do we still insist on stereotyping one another and being on different teams???

Robyn xXx

 

[Pompal 09.]

Ultimately, we humans are creatures of habit and despite how much we may say or think that we can cope with change, we are NOT designed to be able to survive if CHANGE is a constant. We all need some form of stability ( at different levels and by different standards ) so that we can feel reasonably comfortable in knowing there is some certainty about what we are doing and how we live our lives.

Humans, we're a funny bunch of animals aren't we ! :roll:

 

[tanzanite]

No probs Robyn

No problems there Robyn, I figured you've been busy !

 

[Massage Lady]

Welcome back GBM,

Sorry to hear that things didn't work out the way you'd hoped.

Raven

 

[Acts 17:11 guy]

Ladies and Gentlemen,

I hope this doesn't come across the wrong way but this particular thread isn't really an appropriate place for a "general" discussion about relationships. It is a fascinating subject though, so if you would like to continue in this vein, please feel Reviewee to start a new discussion.

Thank you,

Raven

 

[~luvs 4ever!~]

Yes welcome back GBM

Most here would agree that there are great things to lookforward to
I think we all understand really and lookforward to seeing u here again

Robyn xXx

 

[Jack Mehoff]

:kiss:
Welcome Back GBM.

I agree with Robyn, there are better things in life to look forward to.
And good things in life come to those who wait.

Welcome Back xoxoxo

 

[ek 5]

This thread is about relationships, Raven... Reviewom the start. To start a new thread would confuse the issue.

Robyn, I very nearly used the word "empathise". I thought sympathise would be more readily understood.

 

[jaysetsfire]

Merls, this is not open to debate. This is GB's return thread, not a meandering discussion about relationships in general.

IF you wish to have a general discussion about relationships then you may do so in another thread, BUT DO NOT hijack GB's thread.

 

[roezy@sbcglobal.net]

Ok sorry, sir