I just got a new female kitten for my 12 week old male. I think she's nine weeks. I have a bulldog pup also. She hisses and spits whenever the male gets near. He rolls over and submits to her but she growls and hisses. Our puppy looks at her through his kennel. And when she's on the bed he looks at her because he can only get his front paws up there. She hisses at him too. If they get too close she flips out. What am I supposed to be going?