I met this girl at work, we chat every now and again. Ive been out of dating for about a year, i was really ill so took time to sort myself out. I really like her, but as you can guess confidence is non existent, i wouldnt even know how to ask her out, i struggle even thinking of what to say to her, what do you think the best way would be? to speak to her, or over MSN at work? and what do i say?