Q: A lot of women still wonder why men visit prostitutes. What's the answer?
"Sex Secrets of Escorts: Tips From a Pro," Veronica Monet
A: "First and foremost, men do not go to see therapists. They go to see prostitutes. So, when a man's feeling like something's lacking in his life, something's missing and he's not quite sure what it is ... the prostitute or the mistress or the courtesan, or even the stripper, wind up being confidantes. The men are either too ashamed or too afraid or too protective of their ego or their power to make themselves that vulnerable to the people in their life. There is an exchange of cash, which gives the man the feeling that he's in control, so therefore, he can exercise no control....
"When I first started working as a prostitute, I thought these guys would tell me what to do. They hadn't a clue. I suddenly realized, no, this is a service provider position, which means I'm like a hairdresser or a chef, who's getting paid to know my job. I had to go take classes. ...
"I think even if we had all the free sex in the world and everybody's sexually empowered, there will still be prostitutes. Just like there's going to be restaurants, even if we're all well fed. Because there's just days when you don't want to do it yourself."
"Sex Secrets of Escorts: Tips From a Pro," Veronica Monet
A: "First and foremost, men do not go to see therapists. They go to see prostitutes. So, when a man's feeling like something's lacking in his life, something's missing and he's not quite sure what it is ... the prostitute or the mistress or the courtesan, or even the stripper, wind up being confidantes. The men are either too ashamed or too afraid or too protective of their ego or their power to make themselves that vulnerable to the people in their life. There is an exchange of cash, which gives the man the feeling that he's in control, so therefore, he can exercise no control....
"When I first started working as a prostitute, I thought these guys would tell me what to do. They hadn't a clue. I suddenly realized, no, this is a service provider position, which means I'm like a hairdresser or a chef, who's getting paid to know my job. I had to go take classes. ...
"I think even if we had all the free sex in the world and everybody's sexually empowered, there will still be prostitutes. Just like there's going to be restaurants, even if we're all well fed. Because there's just days when you don't want to do it yourself."