I often go to Aquarius. However as someone mentioned it is often a much higher ration of men vs women.
That said, I have found Sunday evenings and Tuesday / Thursday noon hours to be the time to go.
Sunday evenings are often time where people will set time aside and come put on a show. These same people will often then hand pick participants to assist them. Don't be shy, stand up when they look at you. You will have a rocking time.
It is important to note though...this place runs off respect. Just cause you are rocking out the 6 pack abs and are hung like Christ himself does not mean these people are going to choose you to help out. Stand close enough to watch, but do not crowd. Show and voice your interest, ie: expose what you have to offer and always....ALWAYS ask permission.
Many rock hard young studs will go home and because they don't have the patience to simply offer to hold the lady's hands at first.
Tuesday and Thursday nooners are slightly different. My experience is that these are your lonely housewives who are here while their partners are at work. They are wanting the fun times without the affair stigma. However, respect is again the key. Introduce yourself. Ask her what she is looking for. Often if she is walking around, she hasn't committed to a task yet. When she sits on any of the couches to watch some porn, she's gearing up. Here it is all in the introduction and she will offer to sit beside her. From there....well it's up to you, lol.
Aquarius can be a most entertaining time. Be patient and do not expect much at first. You may need to simply walk around a bit. Spend an hour or two, perhaps more. Bring something to drink, and any toys you enjoy. Massage oil is often a great opener on the couch. However, have a back up plan as well. It doesn't cost much to go to Aquarius, $20 or so, but you will find yourself looking for you favorite SP on speed dial about 50% of the time. There are often a lot of 'creepers' there too. And I have found many of the older gay men to be very pushy. Be polite and Very firm to make them change their minds.
A point of interest: Many Saturdays when the clubs close down, car loads of 18-25 y/o's have randomly shown up. They are always incredible to watch, but I have yet to simply see them enjoy the company of others. They come and put on a cock tease show, but they have what they need with them, and they keep it that way.
But wow, what a show.
I'm new to the boards but I was glad I was able to offer info for a thread here.