Are there any Asian MPAs that give girlfriend experience?

[BulliedEnough]

A big fear of mine came true. The fear that having sex with prostitutes won't numb the pain of loneliness. The whole reason I got into this scene was because I wanted to feel less lonely. Spending 40 mins with an MPA is fun but it's not "fulfilling." As soon as I walk outside, I feel even more depressed because I see actual couples spending time together, having fun (without the 30 min time limit).

I've been lonely my whole life. Most people my age (mid 20s) already have an established social circle. Unfortunately I don't, so it's harder to date. Cold approaching girls just isn't leading to any actual dates. I was hoping I could change my social situation this year, but I couldn't due to Coronavirus. All College campuses are closed so I have no place to meet people my age. It's not too bad for other people because like I said, MOST people already have an established social circle by the time they reach my age. They already have a significant other.

So with that said, I was hoping I could find an Asian girl/MPA that does girlfriend experience. Even if it's pretend love, I just want something to numb the loneliness until a vaccine comes out and I can finally go outside to meet girls at college.

The thing is, I could get a girlfriend right now, but I'm not sexually attracted to any of the girls that are interested in me. I'm only attracted to Asian chicks. I don't even need a super cute asian chick. A 5/10 asian girl would be awesome enough. So it's not like I have high standards or anything. I'm not a bad looking dude, it's just that I'm brown (desi). I fear that my skin color is holding me back. All the romantic prospects I find are my skin color. It's really hard for me to find Asian girls who are open to dating a brown guy. When I meet girls, I don't give off any obvious/creepy "yellow fever" vibes. I'm pretty good at hiding that stuff. I feel bad for saying this because I appreciate ANYONE who has shown romantic interest in me. It PAINS me to reject someone because I don't find them attractive. I'm thankful for them that they've shown interest in me, but I can't go any further with them if they're not Asian. I've rejected quite a few girls because they weren't asian, and I don't feel good doing it. They're not ugly or anything, it's just that they're not my type.

I'm having a really hard time getting with Asian chicks. Are brown/desi people really considered THAT ugly in their eyes? Is it a cultural thing for them? Are they taught that brown people are dirty or something from a young age?

 

[JoeMan]

Hit the gym, work on your game, get a gf. Forget paying girls for company.

 

[BulliedEnough]

Hit the gym, work on your game, get a gf. Forget paying girls for company.

I gym regularly, I even bought gym equipment because fuck going to gyms nowadays, especially with Phase 2. I feel like my game is good because it works here and there, but it never seems to work on Asian girls.

 

[OG_funguy]

Don't give up, I know at least 2 asian MPAs that have dated brown guys. Also, check out some of the online dating sites...again, I know several asian MPAs (young too) that are looking for serious relationships.

 

[JoeMan]

I gym regularly, I even bought gym equipment because fuck going to gyms nowadays, especially with Phase 2. I feel like my game is good because it works here and there, but it never seems to work on Asian girls.

Asian girls who recently immigrated often prefer their own kind. Girls who have been brought up in Canada are a lot more willing to date other cultures assuming you've also been brought up in Canada. If you're didn't grow up in Canada, then your chances will be slim. But there's always a chance. I find a lot of asian girls on dating apps. Keep trying.

 

[ppc]

Which dating apps?

 

[sexpuppy]

You don't usually go to MPA for a relationship; maybe ok if you wanted an affair.

 

[Old No. 7]

have you ever asked an Asian MPA to see you off the clock?
You never know.

 

[krayjee]

I gym regularly, I even bought gym equipment because fuck going to gyms nowadays, especially with Phase 2. I feel like my game is good because it works here and there, but it never seems to work on Asian girls.

Go see Cecilia at La Monny spa. She will treat you like her BF no matter what race or age you are. Just be nice and clean. I was surprised she even likes one of our regular 60 yrs old former meth addicts with no teeth.
Be warned...She is addictive. Some guys see her 2-3 days in a row and one guy ended up staying 2 and a half hr on his one hr appointment and he comes every week to One plus One every Thursdays just to be with her.

 

[hangul99]

Looking for love at an AMP is like trying to find happiness in a bottle of Vodka.

Both end badly.

 

[bigk23]

A big fear of mine came true. The fear that having sex with prostitutes won't numb the pain of loneliness. The whole reason I got into this scene was because I wanted to feel less lonely. Spending 40 mins with an MPA is fun but it's not "fulfilling." As soon as I walk outside, I feel even more depressed because I see actual couples spending time together, having fun (without the 30 min time limit).

I've been lonely my whole life. Most people my age (mid 20s) already have an established social circle. Unfortunately I don't, so it's harder to date. Cold approaching girls just isn't leading to any actual dates. I was hoping I could change my social situation this year, but I couldn't due to Coronavirus. All College campuses are closed so I have no place to meet people my age. It's not too bad for other people because like I said, MOST people already have an established social circle by the time they reach my age. They already have a significant other.

So with that said, I was hoping I could find an Asian girl/MPA that does girlfriend experience. Even if it's pretend love, I just want something to numb the loneliness until a vaccine comes out and I can finally go outside to meet girls at college.

The thing is, I could get a girlfriend right now, but I'm not sexually attracted to any of the girls that are interested in me. I'm only attracted to Asian chicks. I don't even need a super cute asian chick. A 5/10 asian girl would be awesome enough. So it's not like I have high standards or anything. I'm not a bad looking dude, it's just that I'm brown (desi). I fear that my skin color is holding me back. All the romantic prospects I find are my skin color. It's really hard for me to find Asian girls who are open to dating a brown guy. When I meet girls, I don't give off any obvious/creepy "yellow fever" vibes. I'm pretty good at hiding that stuff. I feel bad for saying this because I appreciate ANYONE who has shown romantic interest in me. It PAINS me to reject someone because I don't find them attractive. I'm thankful for them that they've shown interest in me, but I can't go any further with them if they're not Asian. I've rejected quite a few girls because they weren't asian, and I don't feel good doing it. They're not ugly or anything, it's just that they're not my type.

I'm having a really hard time getting with Asian chicks. Are brown/desi people really considered THAT ugly in their eyes? Is it a cultural thing for them? Are they taught that brown people are dirty or something from a young age?

This is very raw and I get it ... I was trying to setup a dinner date for an 2 Asian MPAs, one for me and my friend of like 15 years (indian background). The MPA was very concerned about my Indian friend, she was asking me weird questions like does he respect woman, is he kind, etc. It was very telling into the perspective that some of the "not born in CAD" look at the Desi thing - they fear lack of respect/treatment etc. Anyhow another thing for you is to try online dating site or go to a few MPAs and slowly build trust and like-ability with a girl. They make pretty decent money during the busy times so if you want a GF experience on her downtime then she either needs to like you or you need to pay her big bucks to pretend to - which won't work out long term. Bro, there are a bazillion people in GTA/Toronto and I get it with COVID its hard but go online dating, go do all that.. I wish I was single again, it would be crazy amazing.

P.S. A little warning to you.. and I don't know why this is but once you seen an MPA outside of work things change and it gets weird. I have done it twice and it was ok, the time it works better is if you are paying them to have dinner and fun etc.

 

[Catman]

A big fear of mine came true. The fear that having sex with prostitutes won't numb the pain of loneliness. The whole reason I got into this scene was because I wanted to feel less lonely. Spending 40 mins with an MPA is fun but it's not "fulfilling." As soon as I walk outside, I feel even more depressed because I see actual couples spending time together, having fun (without the 30 min time limit).

I've been lonely my whole life. Most people my age (mid 20s) already have an established social circle. Unfortunately I don't, so it's harder to date. Cold approaching girls just isn't leading to any actual dates. I was hoping I could change my social situation this year, but I couldn't due to Coronavirus. All College campuses are closed so I have no place to meet people my age. It's not too bad for other people because like I said, MOST people already have an established social circle by the time they reach my age. They already have a significant other.

So with that said, I was hoping I could find an Asian girl/MPA that does girlfriend experience. Even if it's pretend love, I just want something to numb the loneliness until a vaccine comes out and I can finally go outside to meet girls at college.

The thing is, I could get a girlfriend right now, but I'm not sexually attracted to any of the girls that are interested in me. I'm only attracted to Asian chicks. I don't even need a super cute asian chick. A 5/10 asian girl would be awesome enough. So it's not like I have high standards or anything. I'm not a bad looking dude, it's just that I'm brown (desi). I fear that my skin color is holding me back. All the romantic prospects I find are my skin color. It's really hard for me to find Asian girls who are open to dating a brown guy. When I meet girls, I don't give off any obvious/creepy "yellow fever" vibes. I'm pretty good at hiding that stuff. I feel bad for saying this because I appreciate ANYONE who has shown romantic interest in me. It PAINS me to reject someone because I don't find them attractive. I'm thankful for them that they've shown interest in me, but I can't go any further with them if they're not Asian. I've rejected quite a few girls because they weren't asian, and I don't feel good doing it. They're not ugly or anything, it's just that they're not my type.

I'm having a really hard time getting with Asian chicks. Are brown/desi people really considered THAT ugly in their eyes? Is it a cultural thing for them? Are they taught that brown people are dirty or something from a young age?

Ill give you the truth cuz no one else will. If you're a brown guy, it will be difficult for you to date or have an East Asian girlfriend. That's because East Asians are inherently racist against darker skinned races. The good thing is you have set your expectations low for a 5/10 and i have seen East Asian and brown couples around but its uncommon. So my advice is be yourself and take your time. Be confident and patient. Going to whores for love is a waste of time and $.
These bitches only want your $.

 

[goodtogo1962]

Try karaoke bars, hang out and see how it goes, either way it's a good laugh.

 

[BulliedEnough]

Hi everyone, sorry for the late reply. I went offline for a while due to a bit of personal depression, but I want to thank everyone for the responses.

The thing is, I'm actually a "Canadian-born Desi." I'm just as westernized as any white guy who grew up here. But I guess sometimes it's hard to see past color. I don't blame these Asian girls because I totally understand they come from homogenous countries. So they're not used to being around brown guys. I can understand why they feel a bit hesitant. I understand that I can't force anyone to like me. The best I can do is try to appear as attractive/positive-minded as possible. The thing is, I actually got a few numbers from a few Asian girls in the past few months, and they've all either ghosted me/ stopped responding.

The past few days have been kinda tough because I realized how fucking stupid I was for trying to get with a certain girl. Met a girl who came here from Japan, and honestly I feel absolutely fucking stupid for believing I even had a chance with her. We ended up exchanging a few texts and then she stopped replying. I didn't say anything creepy, and I wasn't being "desperate." I just came to the harsh realization that she probably isn't attracted to brown guys and is probably taking good dick on the side. She's not all that attractive in objective terms, but I didn't mind. I thought she was pretty enough for me, I don't really ask for much. I don't need an 8/10 Asian girl. A simple 5/10 would even do. I feel like a fucking idiot fantasizing about going on a date with her, only to realize she's probably getting fucked while I lay on my bed waiting for her texts. I'm laughing while I type this. I can't believe I deluded myself into thinking I had a chance with her lol Being rejected/unworthy in the eyes of this particular girl is what made me depressed the past few days. I realized that I'm just not good enough, and it's out of my control.

Honestly, none of this would be a problem if Japan opened up up their prostitution business to foreigners. One of the biggest disappointments over the past few weeks is when I learned that Japanese prostitutes will only work with Japanese men, not foreigners. So there goes my dream fantasy of going to Japan experiencing love hotels or spas.

Also, I'm not trying to get in a relationship with a prostitute. Trust me, I'm not that stupid lol. I just want the experience of having a "date night" experience. Walking outside with someone, holding their hand and talking random shit. Taking her out for food. It's fake, but it's enough for me to go home and be happy that I got a chance to spend time with a cute Asian girl. Even though its' fake, it's enough to keep me busy until a vaccine comes out and then I can finally go out and start talking to girls for real at College.

 

[Pay2Play]

Hi everyone, sorry for the late reply. I went offline for a while due to a bit of personal depression, but I want to thank everyone for the responses.

The thing is, I'm actually a "Canadian-born Desi." I'm just as westernized as any white guy who grew up here. But I guess sometimes it's hard to see past color. I don't blame these Asian girls because I totally understand they come from homogenous countries. So they're not used to being around brown guys. I can understand why they feel a bit hesitant. I understand that I can't force anyone to like me. The best I can do is try to appear as attractive/positive-minded as possible. The thing is, I actually got a few numbers from a few Asian girls in the past few months, and they've all either ghosted me/ stopped responding.

The past few days have been kinda tough because I realized how fucking stupid I was for trying to get with a certain girl. Met a girl who came here from Japan, and honestly I feel absolutely fucking stupid for believing I even had a chance with her. We ended up exchanging a few texts and then she stopped replying. I didn't say anything creepy, and I wasn't being "desperate." I just came to the harsh realization that she probably isn't attracted to brown guys and is probably taking good dick on the side. She's not all that attractive in objective terms, but I didn't mind. I thought she was pretty enough for me, I don't really ask for much. I don't need an 8/10 Asian girl. A simple 5/10 would even do. I feel like a fucking idiot fantasizing about going on a date with her, only to realize she's probably getting fucked while I lay on my bed waiting for her texts. I'm laughing while I type this. I can't believe I deluded myself into thinking I had a chance with her lol Being rejected/unworthy in the eyes of this particular girl is what made me depressed the past few days. I realized that I'm just not good enough, and it's out of my control.

Honestly, none of this would be a problem if Japan opened up up their prostitution business to foreigners. One of the biggest disappointments over the past few weeks is when I learned that Japanese prostitutes will only work with Japanese men, not foreigners. So there goes my dream fantasy of going to Japan experiencing love hotels or spas.

Also, I'm not trying to get in a relationship with a prostitute. Trust me, I'm not that stupid lol. I just want the experience of having a "date night" experience. Walking outside with someone, holding their hand and talking random shit. Taking her out for food. It's fake, but it's enough for me to go home and be happy that I got a chance to spend time with a cute Asian girl. Even though its' fake, it's enough to keep me busy until a vaccine comes out and then I can finally go out and start talking to girls for real at College.

I read the first 3 lines of your second paragraph. You have nothing to offer beyond that.

 

[BulliedEnough]

I have to respectfully disagree. I feel that I have an interesting/passable personality. I like talking about comedy, philosophy, movies. I have an artistic side, which is a big part of my identity. I like working out and learning about nutrition. I have enough hobbies to keep me busy. When I talk to girls of other races, I have no problem grabbing their attention. It's just Asian girls that I have no luck with, unfortunately. I'm still trying, I can't give up anytime soon. I only started going out and asking girls out for the first time in my life this year. I feel like I have a lot of catching up to do because I'm 26 years old and I wasted so many years of missed opportunities. I'm still learning the rhythm of game and flirting.

 

[krayjee]

I have to respectfully disagree. I feel that I have an interesting/passable personality. I like talking about comedy, philosophy, movies. I have an artistic side, which is a big part of my identity. I like working out and learning about nutrition. I have enough hobbies to keep me busy. When I talk to girls of other races, I have no problem grabbing their attention. It's just Asian girls that I have no luck with, unfortunately. I'm still trying, I can't give up anytime soon. I only started going out and asking girls out for the first time in my life this year. I feel like I have a lot of catching up to do because I'm 26 years old and I wasted so many years of missed opportunities. I'm still learning the rhythm of game and flirting.

You seem like a nice person but brown guys never looks good in Asian MPAs' eyes bcuz the majority of brown guys they came across were so cheap, so smelly and so aggressive.

You are Canadian born and raised, so once they get to know you things could get better so long as you look slim and fit. Always remember a kind and generous person always looks beautiful in their eyes. Try to see someone who speaks English well. Communication is the key and sense of humor plays a big part. Texting them often with social talks won't do anything for you. They gave it to you so you can book them directly. If money is no problem, see them often and let them know you better in person. Be warned though, these girls are very good at using guys. I have seen one EI guy getting used pretty well at a well known spa.

 

[BulliedEnough]

Thank you for the reply, Mr.Krayjee.

The thing is, I feel like I wouldn't have this problem with loneliness in it weren't for the whole Covid situation. This was the worst year for a pandemic to happen in terms of my personal goals. I made it a goal to finally go out and talk to girls this year at college. But then the pandemic happened and Colleges/Universities got closed down. Even with that said, I STILL went out and talked to women. But I've had no luck with Asian girls. I feel like my luck would be better in a school setting because it does feel awkward cold-approaching girls at a mall/ supermarket setting.

Asian girls/ especially new immigrants are very weary of brown guys. They just don't trust us on instinct because they were raised in a homogenous environment. Canadian-born Asian girls on the other hand already have established friend-groups by the time they reach 22. By that age, they'll have guys asking them out all the time (studies have even shown that Asian girls are the most sought after women in college/university settings). Most Canadian-born Asian girls I see who are in their 20s are already in a relationship OR aren't interested in "average brown guys." Whenever I do see a brown guy with an Asian girl, they're usually the types of guys that are so attractive they can attract girls of any race. Unfortunately, I'm not one of those guys. I'm decent looking, but not super attractive.

Again, I hate to be the guy that blames the pandemic because we're all going through it together. But I feel as though most people my age already have a solidified friend-group by their 20s. So they're not exactly alone, even when they are. They can always fall back on girls they've seen before. For me, I had to start fresh this year, so I don't have a history of having girls' numbers on my phone.

Also, I'm very curious about when you said you know a brown guy that is being used by an Asian MPA. Could you elaborate on the story? I would like to learn from it as a cautionary tale so I understand what to do and "not to do." For me, I understand that it's stupid to fall in love with a prostitute. I would never do something that stupid. I may not be the sharpest knife in the drawer, but I'm not THAT stupid to the point where I'd develop feelings for a prostitute. If I have a GFE, I can enjoy the moment while also realizing that it's fake. I understand MPAs get proposed and gifted expensive gifts all the time, so I'm not going to pretend I have any leverage over her. I understand that a GFE is strictly business and not personal.

 

[Novembernew]

It is the streotype thing..
Just like people think "all asians have small eyes and dick" lol
In Asia, what we hear about India is not good. So everyone tends to believe it applies to every Indian.
(I.e. in india, there are no woman rights. Raping is common) not to mention 90% of voice fishing involves India.
I am not a racist myself. I have plenty of Indian friends. But that is just me who grew up in this country almost whole life. It will be really difficult for you to find FOB asian girl who will be into you imo. =/

 

[imyourpuppet]

Dude you're in your 20's. Don't see MPA's unless you're just horny and want to bust a nut. Save date night for the real thing. I know its tough right now with covid19 but just keep yourself out there as much as possible.