Are there any chat rooms for step parents?

[kt_brown2003]

My partner has 2 children to 2 previous relationships. He had never met his daughter who is 9 but his son has always been a part of his life (there was a very lengthy and pricey court battle which I supported him through), we were just beginning to get our lives back on track, but his ex got in touch a few months ago asking him to meet his daughter.

He went, and has been seeing his daughter for the last few months. He has a much better relationship with his daughter's mum than his son's, which is great because at least we know for the time being she isn't going to make things difficult on purpose.

I'm trying to be supportive and give him space to develop a bond with his daughter, but I'm struggling to see where I fit in his life anymore. We're fighting so much at the minute , and I think it would help if I could speak to other people going through similar things. My friends are very nice, but they only tell me what they think I want to hear, I need proper advice from people who have been through something similar.

I love my partner so much and can't bear the thought of losing him or his son. But I'm going to lose them all if I can't sort my head out...please help