Awkward workplace situation

[Lightgreen]

I was moved to a new location at work recently. The problem is there is this co-worker that looks so much like a MPA I am seeing quite regularly. She even sounds like the MPA. I am having some problems concentrating at work and needless to say having frequent fantasies. I just don't know what to do. I have some heavy work schedule and I cannot afford to be distracted like this. The problem is going to get worst because I'll be working with her team soon... As I am typing this she walks by, her a** is just, ouch....

 

[Missa]

Man, I wish I had such problems...

 

[Geoff The Phantom Skier]

I have to agree with Rerun, even if she were to accept your offer to go on a date, it's never a good idea to date a co-worker. Too many complications, IMO

 

[lol-ific]

AHh......I say date your co-worker! Besides, that's how I met my wife!!!

 

[gaiasloft]

You don't ask Clark Kent if he's Superman. Raise the question, so to speak, the next time at the spa.

 

[Daisuki]

I'm puzzled. If you've seen this MPA more than a couple of times, wouldn't it be very easy to determine if your co-worker is her?

 

[Bella Cullen]

I assume it's not the same woman. Just reminds him of her. Ask her out. Jobs are a dime a dozen, a hot gf/wife is worth a lifetime!

 

[colleen]

Okay, not the same woman.

Dating a co-worker can become more awkward than the situation that you're in right now.

 

[handsomeprince75]

LMAO My experience is the opposite.
Taz

 

[Master Mister]

If it is your co-worker who is your MPA-of the day, I think you would want to try to attend a different spa. I'm sure she may be uncomfortable with it as well. She may be concerned with being outed, and maybe you should be too. Enjoy the view at work, but act on it with someone new, at a different spa.

 

[Rock Firestorm]

I think you should ask out the co worker and continue seeing the MPA too. If you and your co worker are both single you may wind up getting laid or making a hot friend with other potential hot friends! I would suggest asking her out and seeing if you can feel out the conversation to find out what's in her head. If she seems uptight you remain friends. If she is wild you may wind up getting laid big time by the MPA lookalike! If you don't ask you will always have your MPA, your fantasy and your right hand.

 

[Cindy J]

Ask her if she will give you a BS during lunch in your office.

 

[IReallyDunno]

A quick update:

I did not quit seeing the MPA. I saw her again ladt week and I told her about the scenario. We both have a good laugh and a good time.

It turns out that after a meeting which both of us attended I took her out for lunch. We had a really good time. I also found out she is married and her husband used to work at the same company I did but at a different location. Erotic fantasy aside, it seems things are turning out quite well. I seems to gain a new sexy friend and some extra good time with another (the MPA).

Thanks for all your amusing input... I doubt there will be a BS at lunch...

 

[Eric Madison]

Wait... Are you saying that the MPA is your co-worker?

And that she is ok and you laugh about it?

Do you get a company disount now? More or less service? I can see maybe she will be shy now not so open if she is to return to work and see you there also.

 

[Angel Eyes]

The only way to completely eliominate temptation is to surrender to it.

With that said, see your regular MPA more often, while you decide on what you want to do with the co-worker. Maybe, also ask your MPA for an opinion as to what to do, if you have a good rapport going with her. These ladies are often better than seieing a therapist!

shakenbaken

 

[Snob 2 (Suspended)]

Who is this MPA anyway? and Can they give me the fantasy of being my co=worker... Who new ideas coming up in my devious little mind.

 

[The Paranoid Android]

The work place can pose some delicate situations which require good judgement and tact. Why don't you break the ice with her and ask if she would enjoy some anal sex with you? Then you broach the topic and how she looks like a MPA.

 

[mint frost]

Ahem! William, while I do really appreciate your somewhat direct approach, I would want to remind every one about that new-fangled trend called 'Political Correctness' and that ever-so-small thorn-in-the-side called 'Sensitvity Training'.

However, you really do make the point, and I agree, that Meow really should break the ice! The frustration would kill me, whatabut all the rest of the massageplanet.netites?

shakenbake