I have a preference for modestly trimmed. I like em 'natural'. Leg and pit hair doesn't even bother me, as long as it's long enough to be soft. Hair in 'odd places' does bug me... The upside of 'modestly trimmed' is that aggressive hair removal is a vector for disease, and hair holds smell so removing it can mask issues. If things like herpes is a concern, shaving your nut-sack bare and flipping a woman into cowgirl should be off the menu.