Bars for couples

[Amanda Ramsbottom]

We are in Patong in acouple of weeks time staying at the Bangla Suites and would like to find bars that are couple friendly. What I mean is even tho we are married I like to play with the girls and the wife is cool with it and likes to join in but the Thai girls are always a bit stand offish be cause we are a couple. Is the a particular bar where the girls are willing to play be friendly etc towards couples

 

[blueplaty15]

That should not be a problem in any bar, it all depends on how you present yourselves.
If you sit and drink and just chat with eachother than the girls would not approach you as if you was there alone.
But if you invite them there should not be a problem at all.

Talk to the manager or the mamasan and let them know what you are up for and they will find you ladies that doesn´t mind go with a couple.
They are there to help both you and the girls and I am pretty sure that you don´t have any requests they havn´t heard before.
I have friends that use to do that all the time and never went back alone to the room.

 

[aaahyeaaa]

To my knowledge, there are no special bars for couples. Not in Bangkok, but not in Pattaya and Phuket. I understand a bit what you meant. There is a difference to a man alone in the bar or to appear as a couple. How they respond to you as a couple is different from bar to bar, but also from time to time. Sometimes it happens that with a nice lady talking, but if we show that we really like her, she says "Ohh no, can not, im shy woman to" yes, and you have bad luck.

But what I usually do I make a joke, to the ladies, something "be carefull my wife is a lesbian." And indeed if you ask the mamasam to a lady who wants a couple, there is often one or two to find. But whether it's just the girl we like ..... So for one man alone is all simple, but must say that the ladies who have gone with us no longer remember how many there were. So just, be merry, make both fun and before you know .....

 

[B*tchKitty]

Never had a problem... Chat up the girls, esp the wifey (a big lecherous grin helps), and you'll have all the choices you can handle in short order. If you're not getting some nice prospects, simply move on to the next bar. The magic words you want to hear as a couple are "Ooooh Madame!" Just smile at the girls, buy a few drinks, and they'll catch your drift very quickly. All bars are "couple friendly", some girls are and some girls aren't. It's not hard to determine who's ready to play.

 

[Peyton :]]

Yep, that's the best way, let the girls get acquainted and you'll soon have company for the night.

 

[86% Barbie]

Sounds like great advice, I'm sure my GF will put it to good use next week

 

[Dads boy]

Yes Thanks for the advice and I am sure my wife will give me the ok too as she has before. We will be there next week as well. Cant wait.

 

[daza3033]

Just let her do the picking, and you can't go wrong. Perhaps we'll bump into you on Bangla.

Cheers,
The Easy's

 

[Pompal 09.]

My plan is to let the GF 'window shop' as long as she wants then get some rapport going with the girl she likes, chatting, messing around, few drinks, light touching and seduction. Better than grab, BF and sack I think. More likely to check that the chemistry is there and help to build it more.

 

[xcake_eater123]

Spot on, I do believe

 

[Fuzzy]

Wise words ! The force is strong in you, young padawan.

 

[bkylyt990]

Haha. I'm converting to the 'Dark Side'.

 

[Chris M.]

I hope this isn't seen as hijacking the thread, but I figure it's worth asking here as it's very relevant to the topic. Come September and our honeymoon, we'll be visiting Phuket for the third time. Last time the missus and I had a lot of fun at a couple of gogo bars, a couple of dances for her, etc. She's just about ready to take the next step but I've definitely got to make it a positive, fun experience! I'd like some advice, particularly from any female BMs, about that 'next step' More ST than LT, but it's gotta be somewhat classy, you know? Dimly lit ST rooms with stained sheets will not, I believe, result in more P2P fun : Nor will traipsing around drunk at 2am looking for a ST room!

I guess I'm asking, what gogo bars offer their own semi decent ST rooms where you can have a bit of private fun?

 

[theone78]

You are aware that the "dark side" involves Ladyboys?

 

[Bench Bum]

Haha. Not that dark.