Curiously, one finds for example in any studio (= brothel) German BDSM of subjected venal and impassioned as much as are the Mistresses there. And which is perfectly independent women in the true life. Do not forget that the BDSM comes within province of the _ play _, and consensual. There is apparently only in France that one subjected is supposed to be it in the true life and that it does not have supposedly right to the phantasms subjected without being to it the remainder of time... (whereas nobody recommends that vis-a-vis with a subjected man) However, the subjected venal ones are rare because it is a work much more difficult than the venal domination, and which is really feasible in safety only in one protected environment, as provide it for example the German studios mentioned, which are illegal in France.