Being Freaky? How to introduce it to your partner?

[ZR_987]

Do you ever sometimes wonder does your kinkiness scare your partner?, like for me I love a good spank, hair pulling, scratching, biting, handcuffs and dominatrices is that too crazy? my boyfriend isn't a little at all into the whole dominatrices thing. How can do some dominatrices thing without scaring him?

 

[ander]

oh i think he would be. try to introduce it slowly with him. i think ll guys secretly like to be dominated in some way

 

[bige3969]

i would say you should introduce things slowly.

Do not dive into full-on domination with him. He may not believe this is a way to show his affection and love to his lady.

Have you ever been abused in any way, shape or form by a man? If you haven't, try slowly.

Suggest that he pull your hair during sex. have him stractch you during sex without making it seem that it turns you on.

 

[bugbee]

That's exactly what I was wondering, just start being rough with him and see if he reciprocates if not he may not be into it