BF Looking up local “Erotic Massageâ€￾ Parlors – am I overreacting?

[Jessica]

I found my long term BF has been looking up “erotic massageâ€￾ in the town where we live.
I really do not think he would ever cheat on me and we have a great sex life so I do not understand why he would be looking up local “erotic massage.â€￾ I do not have a problem with online porn – but I do not understand why he would be looking it up in our area unless he was thinking about going to one. I asked him about it as I was really upset. He said he was just interested and found it funny – mentioned some guy in Boston who got caught hiring prostitutes online and was amused by it. I don’t quite buy the story – why look up places where WE live? Am I overreacting, or do you think there is something to worry about?

 

[flying scot]

I think your BF is looking for a happy ending of his relationship with you.

 

[Nehru]

Yes, you are

 

[Cham]

He thinks it is funny and read about a guy who got caught?
YET he is looking them up in your local area?? No I do not think you are overreacting at ALL. Your gut is telling you he is looking for some excitement...SO my suggestion, get dressed up like one of them and give him an EROTIC massage...this way he wont go looking!

 

[Marie]

oh no, you DO have something to worry about. He is looking it up for himself. His story doesn't make sense and you just want to trust him because you love him, but he is trying to find it for himself. Get rid of him before you discover other things he is doing or wanting to do. Find someone better.