boyfriend and massage therapist?

[Emily Gool]

My boyfriend has seen the same massage therapist for 5 years and has gone much more frequently due to a minor car accident. He got introduced to her by a mutual friend who is friends with her and her husband, because she gives great deep tissue massages. Whenever my BF comes home from a massage he and his massage therapist have clearly chatted it up, because he starts to tell me some dirt she gave him on their mutual friends, how she and her husband needed someone to wire in their hot tub (my bf is an electrician and ended up wiring it for them)etc. I always thought it was weird that he chatted during his massage, but he is a very talkative person and talks to anyone..(he could talk to a wall). he recently got us both massages and we went in together. he went to his therapist and i saw another girl. our rooms were next door to one another and during my whole massage i could hear the bass of his voice and an occasional laugh from his massage therapist! It really bugged me! What the heck did they really have to talk about....i addressed it when we left and he said that they just discussed weekend plans...how we got a puppy, standard BS...he said he would feel uncomfortable in dead silence during a massage...his therapist is in her 30;s (we are in our latge 20's) and is married with 3 kids and her husband is also a therapst at the same clinic. So i feel like i have nothing to worry about but what the hell!! It just seemed weird, and he got pissed at me for thinking anything of it.

 

[Mark]

oh i was thinking of a different kind of message therapist

 

[jennifer L]

So is it weird that I talk and have conversations with the lady that does my hair and has for about 5 years? I really think your jealousy is taking over and if you don't get it in check you might lose him. So what if they talk they have known each other a very long time and a massage is a bit intimate on a different level so its good they can talk. Until he comes home from his massage and constantly wants sex I don't think you have much to worry about.

 

[jaquisha]

Married or not! Can still cheat! Also maybe u are just taking it to serious! Maybe u should go with him a few times and if they are not all lovey with each other just take a deep breath and forget the situation!