Boyfriend wants a massage everyday!!?

[Megan Conner]

My boyfriend was out of work for nearly 18months and now he has just got a decent job where he works 6-4pm. Hes been working there for a month now and every time I get round hes moans hes so achy and asks for a massage...over and over. Thing is, I also work 9-5, go to the gym, and do my University studies so sometimes Im tired too! He rarely wants to give me one, but I seem to end up giving him one everyday to shut him up. This fair or what?

 

[sashtou]

You mean, he works for 6am until 4pm ?

With an hour at lunch break, that's a 9 hour day and likely illegal.

You don't say why he is achy! Is it a manual job?

I'd say that 'giving him a massage just to shut him up' is not the best of reasons to massage anyone.
And, the imbalance of these massages between you is not good, as is his awareness your own needs and schedule.

Why are you 'in that relationship'?

Sash.

 

[KLH]

Wth! Everyday is too much! U should do it like twice a week , hes tking advantage , u need it too. Compromise if he wnts1 so do u