Calling it quits

[DR19]

I'm hanging up my hobbies hat! I have visited almost all of the spas and independent ladies in and around Edmonton. This is also a warning to all you hobbiests.

My SO was diagnosed with PID, which was caused by an undiagnosed STI. I have risked it sure! I thought I was careful. No Fs, No BBBJ, sure a HE and maybe some DATY. What I didn't realize is we don't know how clean those places are. We don't know how clean the ladies are. My SO has been faithful, she really has. The responsibility falls on me alone. I was touched, jackhammered you name it! Not a big deal... yup! It was, turns out that's exactly how you can get an STI. After a very embarrassing day at the clinic, the nurse taught me a few things. Maybe I didn't realize or maybe I didn't care. Any skin to skin contact with body fluids puts you at risk. If you think you are careful, maybe the person before wasn't. Maybe the ladies didn't sanitize or wash themselves off properly. Who knows, all I can say is. I hope nobody else has to see the look on their SOs face when they find out what and why they are in pain.

Sure I had fun, but at the end of the day my choices are going to hurt her the rest of her life.

Last place I went was the OG Sunny, Nana's and GE. To be honest way more before then. I contacted them, they hung up on me. My SO has likely had it for years, no idea until a week ago. I provided the names and numbers to the nurse as required. It's been years, I did my best. Which is why I'm here, letting you all know.

I think you all should know, get yourselves tested. I did, I'm positive. Go to the STI clinic, make sure if your hobbies continue, your not hurting others for the rest of their life. I had no idea I had anything, no symptoms at all. Neither did my SO until a year ago, 4 tests and 3 doctor appointments later, she got her answers.

I feel terrible and thus the hat hang. I enjoyed the forum! Stay safe everyone.

Get yourselves tested. I have frequented most of your recommendations over the years. Just started this handle a few months ago.

 

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I'm hanging up my hobbies hat! I have visited almost all of the spas and independent ladies in and around Edmonton. This is also a warning to all you hobbiests.

My SO was diagnosed with PID, which was caused by an undiagnosed STI. I have risked it sure! I thought I was careful. No Fs, No BBBJ, sure a HE and maybe some DATY. What I didn't realize is we don't know how clean those places are. We don't know how clean the ladies are. My SO has been faithful, she really has. The responsibility falls on me alone. I was touched, jackhammered you name it! Not a big deal... yup! It was, turns out that's exactly how you can get an STI. After a very embarrassing day at the clinic, the nurse taught me a few things. Maybe I didn't realize or maybe I didn't care. Any skin to skin contact with body fluids puts you at risk. If you think you are careful, maybe the person before wasn't. Maybe the ladies didn't sanitize or wash themselves off properly. Who knows, all I can say is. I hope nobody else has to see the look on their SOs face when they find out what and why they are in pain.

Sure I had fun, but at the end of the day my choices are going to hurt her the rest of her life.

Last place I went was the OG Sunny, Nana's and GE. To be honest way more before then. I contacted them, they hung up on me. My SO has likely had it for years, no idea until a week ago. I provided the names and numbers to the nurse as required. It's been years, I did my best. Which is why I'm here, letting you all know.

I think you all should know, get yourselves tested. I did, I'm positive. Go to the STI clinic, make sure if your hobbies continue, your not hurting others for the rest of their life. I had no idea I had anything, no symptoms at all. Neither did my SO until a year ago, 4 tests and 3 doctor appointments later, she got her answers.

I feel terrible and thus the hat hang. I enjoyed the forum! Stay safe everyone.

Get yourselves tested. I have frequented most of your recommendations over the years. Just started this handle a few months ago.

Are you reconsidering ?