Cheating

[Spies101]

If your wife/girlfriend does massage with a happy ending+, do you consider it's cheating?

 

[YEGPlumber]

Not at all. It's a job; she would be exchanging her skills and labour for money. It's as transactional as any other job.

 

[Kawailuvr]

Not at all. It's a job; she would be exchanging her skills and labour for money. It's as transactional as any other job.

Not every other job do you have guys blowing their loads on you so no I don’t agree it’s like every other job lol ! Ffs

 

[Sector7g]

I would think you would have to have a very open relationship with a girl that works within this field.

Communication and acceptance!

It would be an interesting relationship I be think

 

[JAV4fun]

If wife/girlfriend does HE with her clothing on that consider extra services. If no clothing on and allow clients roaming around / others services consider crossed the line. If your girl provides HE to you before she is your girlfriend which meant you were accepted her at the beginning.

 

[asian4ever]

Never had a gf who brought in good coin. Not sure what I’d think. As long as boundaries were discussed and honored and had a good handy for me at home, i might not have an issue.

 

[Tnerber]

It would be hard because every time you fought you would want to bring it into the fight. Personally I would not get into that relationship. But to each their own.

 

[triggered2nite]

If you know your significant other is in this business, don’t consider it cheating. I’d consider it cheating if I asked her not to engage in those services but she still does, irrespective of job requirements. If she wants money with her physique and beauty, there are many alternatives. Like what Babemashek does

 

[Sackattack]

If your wife/girlfriend does massage with a happy ending+, do you consider it's cheating?

So you know do happy ending+?
Then it’s not cheating.
I need to find one for me to give the +

 

[michael garrett]

If your wife/girlfriend does massage with a happy ending+, do you consider it's cheating?

likely 90 % of them are doing it on the side anyways..might as well get paid for it..

 

[Rubmegood]

Lets see... (Looking conservatively) Say she does 4 hj's a day for 5 days per week @ $40 for an under-the-counter tip. That's $800/week or $$3200/mo. or $38,400 annually in tax-free income- I'd quit my job and say "Go for it babe!"

 

[triggered2nite]

Lets see... (Looking conservatively) Say she does 4 hj's a day for 5 days per week @ $40 for an under-the-counter tip. That's $800/week or $$3200/mo. or $38,400 annually in tax-free income- I'd quit my job and say "Go for it babe!"

Assuming she’d let you use any of that. Hahah think of her response that she made it all and you need to stop being a lazy ass and make your own

 

[Bob the Knob]

If she does this kind of work but doesn't tell you, it's cheating.

Most of the ladies I got close to over the years told me they like the variety of guys, the sex they get and the Money. Not one of them wanted or had a SO because the jealousy eventually takes over. Especially if they offer dinner dates, overnighters or even holiday services.

 

[Deleted member 79939]

IT DOES NOT WORK THAT WAY.
MANY FOLKS HERE NEED GOOD
FOREPLAY BEFORE THE HJ.
WILL SHE ALLOW FOR GROPING, TOUCHING OR GRABBING?
SOME GUYS NEED TO SEE SOME TITS OR ASSHOLE OR BUTTCHEEKS OR PUSSY TO
GET TURNED ON.
THE MASSAGE IS JUST FEELS GOOD. DOESN'T MAKE YOU HORNY.
DOES SHE PLAY WITH BALLS?
DOES SHE TICKLE THE CRACK OF ASS?
DOES SHE FEATHER THE ASSHOLE?
DOES SHE SLIDE HAND ALLONG INNER THIGHS AND TOUCH BALLS?
MOST GUYS WITH MONEY AND OLDER HAVE HARD TIME HAVING ERECTIONS.
THEY NEED GOOD MASSAGE FOREPLAY.
OKAY.

 

[Deleted member 79939]

Lets see... (Looking conservatively) Say she does 4 hj's a day for 5 days per week @ $40 for an under-the-counter tip. That's $800/week or $$3200/mo. or $38,400 annually in tax-free income- I'd quit my job and say "Go for it babe!"

IT DOES NOT WORK THAT WAY.
MANY FOLKS HERE NEED GOOD
FOREPLAY BEFORE THE HJ.
WILL SHE ALLOW FOR GROPING, TOUCHING OR GRABBING?
SOME GUYS NEED TO SEE SOME TITS OR ASSHOLE OR BUTTCHEEKS OR PUSSY TO
GET TURNED ON.
THE MASSAGE IS JUST FEELS GOOD. DOESN'T MAKE YOU HORNY.
DOES SHE PLAY WITH BALLS?
DOES SHE TICKLE THE CRACK OF ASS?
DOES SHE FEATHER THE ASSHOLE?
DOES SHE SLIDE HAND ALLONG INNER THIGHS AND TOUCH BALLS?
MOST GUYS WITH MONEY AND OLDER HAVE HARD TIME HAVING ERECTIONS.
THEY NEED GOOD MASSAGE FOREPLAY.
OKAY.

 

[Guy2013]

Went to urologist a few years back, prior to his examining me he had two young attractive nurses prepare my "parts". Lots of touching, all part of the job.
I don't have any illusions either one derived any pleasure from it, or thought of it as cheating. At the end of their pay period both picked up a paycheck for services rendered

 

[Deleted member 79939]

Went to urologist a few years back, prior to his examining me he had two young attractive nurses prepare my "parts". Lots of touching, all part of the job.
I don't have any illusions either one derived any pleasure from it, or thought of it as cheating. At the end of their pay period both picked up a paycheck for services rendered

SOME NURSES ARE VERY HORNY.
MET A FEW.
THEY LIKE TO LOOK.
YOU KNOW WHEN A NURSE IS HORNY.
THEIR FACE CHANGE AND HEAD TILT DOWN .

 

[Deleted member 79939]

What if you are super singer for a rock n roll band
or a great songwriter for a pop band.
Would you cheat on your hot lady?

 

[bigbill]

WTF is with the all-caps? Not needed, thanks.

This is situational and based on individual relationships and has no right/wrong answer, except for within the context of your own relationship. My current GF has sex with other men, mostly when I'm present! There is no jealously or resentment, it's an integral part of our sex life. Right now I'm having a bit of a fling, for lack of a better word, with a woman involved in the sex industry, and of course my GF is well aware of it, and it was discussed with her before it became physical. Upfront and honest is the best way to go. The deal I have with her is I only see this other woman while my GF is out of town - she travels quite a bit for work. Am I jealous that my fling is spending her days having sex with other men? Nope. But that's me and the women I'm with, and you might not be able to cope with this situation, so don't put yourself in it.

 

[Deleted member 72001]

Lets see... (Looking conservatively) Say she does 4 hj's a day for 5 days per week @ $40 for an under-the-counter tip. That's $800/week or $$3200/mo. or $38,400 annually in tax-free income- I'd quit my job and say "Go for it babe!"

I believe the answer is in the name.....”Hand JOB!!!!”
If it wasn’t a job, it would be called a “Hand CHEAT”
Your welcome. Lol