Dating

[Sunshine!]

THe girls are trusting because Japanese don't lie. Please use discretion when playing with the ladies. We don't want to jade them and they are sweet.

 

[Jean]

That is surely the way things work here in Jp. Most of the girls here would do what westerners won't even think of...

 

[bjjnoobie]

I paid a few times until I found out that you don't really need to.. If you go to bars or clubs japanese females will buy you drinks if they are interested. Also they will take you out places and do a lot for you... you don't really need to do too much. I took this one girl out to dinner and gave her a flower and now she pays about half of the time when we go out plus she is taking me on a trip out of the country... works for me. treat them nice and things will work out helping your pockets.

 

[luvezlife]

sounds like American women could learn a thing or 2 from these Japanese women.

 

[BitterBlue]

I usually pay 100%

 

[Gamble]

I usually do something like pay for dinner and then have them pay for drinks at the next place. With the chick I'm seeing now, she pays 1/3 of the bill because my salary is much higher than hers and I want to be a gentleman.

 

[Yohanson.]

The ones taking all your money do! hehehehe... No, Japanese women when they like you they will pay for everything! Hell, once I picked up a girl in a bar. Told her I lost some money. She bought me drinks all night & fucked me. No, the "I am a guy I should pay for everything" does not apply in Japan. If you are interested in a relationship then make an effort. If you are just looking to play, J-Girls are the most guliable on the planet!

 

[Drea]

I was wondering what dating was like in Japan. Does the guy pay for everything? Do the j girls expect a lot of expensive meals and gifts or are they happy with whatever they get?