leche,
thanks for the explanation, I honestly appreciate it.
But a finger up my ass - NO WAY!!!.
I had haemorrides (spelling?) and had to subject myself to "finger in the ass" by the doctors more than enough. - Traumatic for me!
Since then I canยดt understand any gay, who getยดs fucked in the ass.
It must be a pain and nothing else - at least to my experience.
Just to add: I believe, that the doctors, who treated me, were trying to be as careful as possible, to spare me as much as they could.
OK, each to his own.
Thanks once more,
Concerned