Yes I been refused quite a few times, and nothing hurts your ego as much as been turned down by a seemingly "sure thing." That's why AB is such a good place for first timers as none of those chicas would ever turn you down.
But at Las Chavelas I been turned down the most. especially if I just walk up to the chica as ask if she wants to go upstairs, but if I sit there and drink with them they usually go upstairs, but not always as they have an excuse, I don't do that, I'm on my period, my pussy is sore, etc etc.
Hong Kong has many chicas that just won't go up for one reason or another, and it's usually that they don't like you.
I had one chica in particle that use to break my heart all the time in hK her name was Isela. When I first started taking a friend with me to HK, he quickly hooked up with another chica, and spent all his time with her, and Isela was her best friend in the bar. My friend played the part of the rich guy, and spent lots of money on drink rounds for everybody in our little group, and Isela was happy just sitting around and drinking a bucket a beer my friend brought her.
Since I had to keep taps on my friend, because he was a drunk, I never went far away, and spent time with Isela, and asked her about three times on different trips to go upstairs with me, as she had a very hot body, but she flatly told me NO! I begged, and asked why? And she said he just didn't want too, previous this she always told me she was on her period, but I found out she like a few other chicas in HK, just came to work with a tampax on just to use 'she was on a period as an excuse.
Finally, I told the"Hong Kong 'stud' about her. The stud was a guy from that other site, and he was a HK regular and seemed to be there everyday. I met him twice, but he forgot who I was and when I was with my friends I didn't want to explain about how I belong to a prostitution site, but the stud would often talk to me via PM. So the stud took it upon himself to help me out and break in the little ice queen. The stud really wasn't a stud, average looking guy, but he had a technique that seemed to be working, he would buy the chicas a lot of drinks in the bar, and ask them out of real dates, and sure enough many of these girls went out on dates with him on their off days. You know they must be tired of being cooped up in the hotel room all day. While he took her on a few nice dates, and even had sex with her for free or the price of the date. I guess that it must have worked, because the very next time I asked her to go upstairs with me she said yes, but demanded $80 and nothing less. In the room she demanded I shower first, and to be quite frank wasn't that good, but boy did she have a beautiful body, and I did finally get to crack her, and that was something I was dying to do, and later we just became friends in the bar, I'd give her l money when it was her turn to dance, kiss her, and talk with her, buy her drinks, but never took her upstairs again.
Later I sent a PM to the Stud and thanked him for breaking her in for me. I rarely if ever see the Stud in HK anymore, and after a year Isela left the bar, but they always return.