pear2apple said:
Frankly I would be a little put-off if I went to a 'relaxation massage' and the therapist exposed my butt cheeks and worked on them. I probably wouldn't return.
As a side note to add depth to this thread
(for any clients reading), many MT's are taught that the glutes/buttocks are not a seperate entity from the leg, but an extension of the leg.
I was taught and look at the leg in this manner: Put your finger on your belly button and then think of the leg as an extension downward from that point. Don't think of leg
and buttocks. Although the buttocks have specific muscles within that area, they provide a function within the leg apparatus itself, which can of course extend into lower back issues.
When you think about it this way
(if you weren't taught that), you can see how the buttocks become less of a point to be concerned about when a therapist exposes the area.