I love massages with or without extras, and if it is one way, that is OK with me.
Having said all of that, DATY is one of my all time favourite activities. I could stay down there for a long long time and tend to linger afterwards too while we talk.
DATY is not something I have done at my semi-legit sessions, with the exception of a bodyslide. While I was on my back, both of her legs were off to the left of my head while she was down below paying special attention to me. My hands were caressing her but I was not pushing anything, especially anything internal. I could tell that as things heated up for me, I felt wetness with my hand. It was at that point that she lifted her right leg and put it on the right side of my head and lowered herself closer to my face. She wasn't pushy. It was more of a move to let me have a look and to see if I was interested, which of course, I was.
I lifted my head and began to explore with my mouth and tongue, making sure to work my way there slowly. Trust me, it was difficult. Once I got there though, the payoff was that she was more aroused, judging from her lubrication and response. I think my enthusiasm helped and my physical response down below was unmistakeable. DATY is my cure for any lack of hardness and she noticed. It wasn't long after, that she orgasmed and just stayed there for a bit while I hugged her hips.
I have done DATY with some escorts but tend to stick to two I saw semi-regularly. It is high on their "what I like" list, which makes a big difference to me.
I had an extended session with one of them at night in a hotel in Calgary. I told her I was in no hurry and to just enjoy. I could feel her body relax and as she began to get more and more aroused, we got to a point where she plateaued because I was not rushing towards the finish. With all of the talk of edging for guys lately, I thought I would just keep her there for as long as possible. She actually fell asleep while quietly moaning! After realizing what happened (a change in her breathing pattern), I actually took it as a compliment that she accepted that I really did like what I was doing and had no time limit.
I just kept going and kept it gently. About 5 mins later, she woke up. We had a quick laugh about it and I went right back to what I was doing. Things started to heat up and it wasn't long before her big finish. She is very self confident and wasn't embarrassed about falling asleep, especially given my reaction. She must have found it a turn on because the finish was noticeably bigger than what I had witnessed with her in the past.
Hand on my heart - true story.