OH man if she dont like it somethings wrong with her. I give mine a massage at least 3 times a week and Im talkin full body, legs, feet, arms, back, butt... SHE Loves it. and as far as the arousal sometimes yeah for sure. but alot of the time your gonna score more points by just giving the massage. shell give you signs if shes gettin turned on, then you need to give her the happy ending, and im talkin for HER not for you. TRUST me like i said at least 3 times a week I do this.