Yes, I enjoy giving my partner massages. However, over the years, I've lost total interest because, I'm sorry to say but there IS no return favors in that area. It's not all about them. They should have an aware enough conscience to realize that they need to be considerate as well; sometimes returning the favor or at LEAST in other ways. If they DON'T, it's just something they expect from you; not appreciate it. It's all about balance in any kind of relationship. I've dealt with this for 9 1/2 years with someone I'm married to, however not much longer at all. Here very soon, I'm getting a divorce, but not because of that. That would be trivial.