Do you feel bad when this happens?

[Pompal 09.]

Let's say you've heard about a new girl that everybody is raving about at your favorite AMP. You have a small window of time to get away, and you call hoping she's available. Mamasan tells you she's busy/vacation/gone. You're disappointed, but worked up and still wanting to see somebody, so you ask about another girl, who turns out to be free.

My question is, do you feel bad wondering if tge girl you are seeing knows she was your second choice? How about if you're a regular of hers and she knows you were trying to hit up the new girl?

Just curious, happened to me yesterday.

 

[Ds Ehhhd]

Just go have fun and enjoy yourself. There may be some internal politics/animosity because these ladies know there is a pecking order and those on the bottom sometimes get jealous of the ones who have lots of customers; however there have been occasions where top providers have asked me to visit with the other ladies.

 

[Don A]

Like Hugo said, there's always internal drama at these places. Just try to ignore it and have fun. If the lady actually brings these topics up to guilt-trip you or whatever, that's a lady I would take a long break from.

Don't get involved in the drama.

 

[Leon]

YES, that has happened to me before, too, and I do feel awkward. I don't feel bad though, when I consider that they are doing 5-10 guys per day. There are minimal feelings involved in my opinion.

You can still have likes and dislikes, but I think they are, for the most part, overlooked, because, let's face it, these girls are in business, to make money.

But last week when I went to see Emily, Penny answered the door, and just for a second, it was like being caught by my wife with another woman. Of course, without the ensuing beating or ramifications. Penny didn't even act funny, she said "HI", and happily went and got Emily.

Going back about two years ago, I never saw anyone at Smile except Holly. When Lisa would answer the door, and see it was me, she would holler back at Holly, "Holly, your husband is here". There were other girls I wanted to see at Smile, but there was no way Holly wouldn't have found out. So I would wait until Holly was on vacation to visit someone else. Holly had jokingly told me before that if I ever saw anyone else at Smile she would cut my dick off. She was KIDDING, but still, I didn't want her to know that I was venturing out.

One time at 7th Heaven, I went to see Cindy, it had been a while since I had seen her. When she came in the room, she says, where have been going. I told her, I had not been going much lately at all, just been ill, etc. She looked me square in the eye, acted hurt, and said, You have been messing around on me haven't you? I guess the look on my face told it all. I started stammering around, then she burst out laughing.
Now she kids me about that every time I see her.

 

[gymnast2014]

@DDog: No, Holly probably wasn't kidding.

 

[blah13]

In the situation you described, I don't think the girls feel bad. Once the girl you asked for is not available, it's like free game on anyone else in their eyes. That's the business side of it.

It's kinda silly but with the girls I really like and repeat often with, I will only see others when they are not available. It's unnecessary, I know. But I believe it pays off big time BCD. ;-)

 

[Just beat it]

When they stop fucking other guys, that's the time to start feeling bad.

Until then, its a business relationship no matter how much you feel they love you.

 

[Breeze M]

To be clear, I have no delusions of them loving any part of me other than my wallet. My concern is not that they may get jealous that I am seeing somebody else, it's the fact that they know they weren't my first choice. Even in a strictly business relationship, that can be a off putting feeling.

 

[Lyn badz]

You're 100% correct. just pointing out that business or not, women still tend to be more competitive with each other on levels that I as a man simply do not understand. It's more about them dealing with each other more then it is about feelings for any of us...IMHO.

 

[-.-"]

I agree. I do feel a slight twinge of uneasiness when that happens. I've left and gone elsewhere if the girl who answered the door is not my first choice, and my first choice is busy. Then I usually make it a point to go back and see that girl (if she appeals to me) and make her my first choice. This technique has paid huge dividends in the long run.

I know it's a business first and foremost, and I also have no delusions that they are the least bit interested in me for anything other than my $$, but these girls have feelings. If you turn the tables and find yourself walking down the hall with your first choice, and another customer walks in and she deftly palms you off to another girl so she can see the new guy, how would you feel? You'd probably write her off your list.

I'm just sayin' that a little respect and courtesy goes a long way, even if it is all business.

Just me and the way I operate.

K.

 

[Death Metaller]

Some of the girls have a professional jealousy (competitive). Some don't. Of my top two, one has lots of it. The other has none.

And Kimchi knows who both of them are, and which is which. LOL

Torito

 

[Azumi]

Wait til I tell her you called her a which(sp) - hehe!

K.

 

[Prudence B]

You're gonna get me in deep shit. Saw the jealous one yesterday. The other on Sunday.

T.

 

[Sudeep King of Scorn]

Well if the those at the bottom would up their game they could be closer to the top!

Now, would you pay a premium for the top girl? Money might sort out this whole issue. When the money is the same, we all want the top service.

 

[BigBangFTW]

Jealousy, professional or otherwise, does not necessarily relate to service or popularity. One lady with professional jealously is very popular, has been so for some time, and gives top level service. She still does not like it when she sees one of her regulars go somewhere else.

Torito

 

[babydoll]

Jealousy is a different topic altogether. I'm not worried about a girl I've seen in the past being pissed that I'm seeing a new girl. I worry about a girl that I've seen in the past being pissed that I called for the new girl and then settled on her when the new girl wasn't available.

 

[scale92788]

has been a problem in the past, but not for a long time for me. i stopped doing the planb/c/d thing a long time ago. not that there is anything wrong with that approach, but now i know who i want to see next. and if she is busy/not working i will wait until i can see her. then it's batter up.

but i do feel bad if i see the same girl every time i go to a particular amp and the other girls know i won't see them. several amps i go to whoever answers the door just yells at the girl she knows i'm there to see. last time i talked to holly at smile she asked me 'why don't i ever get to see you'? kinda said maybe next time i'll see you with another girl, but i think she knew i was lying. but she was cool with it. holly was the coolest girl i never saw. guess it's too late now.

JPdM

 

[alexander m]

My guess is they are not pissed but instead trying to manipulate you. Be nice buthonest and tell her you like variety. Their competitive spirit wil drive them to perform better than ever.

 

[gladewalker69]

Some of my best encounters have been plan B's. One of my ATFs came from a plan B situation. If I were you I wouldn't worry too much about it. A job's a job. You picked her, though secondly, but she still got paid. Now, if you see her and reject her (something I've done - wasn't what I was looking for, in fairness), that's a different matter.