I give my best friends back massages that are girls. I had girls that were my best friends they take off their shirt I give them a back rub. We would take turns. I gave my guy and girl cousins back massages before. I have given my mom back massages before.I just like pleasing people and it good for talking. It like you are supporting someone when they open up to you. I am not one to be affectionate so I give massages I guess.