My MIL has fibromylagia (a condition of widespread pain)-we live with her and i do all the housework and work outside and if she asks me to massage her i will do so and if she wants food i will give her..now the thing is tht recently i didnt ask her if she wants a massage i mean im used to her ordering me aroudn to do this and tht so i dont even bother asking..she otld me today ask her if i want a massage and i told her well y do i have to ask when u want it just tell me ( i said it in a nice way) i mean she keeps her cell phone by her so even if im not in her bedroom with her she can call em on my phone...u think i am wrong on my part? By the way shes 53...