Do you think sliding affects your non-sliding encounters?

[Earl W]

I've been thinking about how spoiled I've been with the time spent with these incredibly hot women who provide these steamy fantasies. I mean at the very least you aren't all going home to leggy, busty, blonde models who play the sex kitten role to a tee.

Thoughts?

 

[Vanessa]

If you can separate fantasy from reality then you really have no problem.

How many can say that they truly can do that, we are only human and each sliding experience rubs off on us.

Sometimes it helps, if you are the shy type the sessions may help you become more open with the opposite sex.

Of course, sliding with the hot babes can sort of raise your standards and the nice girl next door may be overlooked for the hot office babe that doesn't give you the time of day.

In the end it always falls on you to make that decision and to correct it.

A short answer without going in too deep.


VBB

 

[Ckoal]

If you are getting handjobs all the time...it might affect your erection since you have become accustom to HJ

 

[ntouchspa]

Damn Dr. Phil is that you?

You guys are good. The raised standards was my big concern. Not just in looks but also what happens in the bedroom. I guess the big difference is that when you meet a girl, the first while you are having getting to know you sex instead of jumping into the already know you so lets get freaky sex.

I like what VBB had to say about identifying the problem and correcting it.

 

[kirsty_t_2007]

Now when I enter a subway or street car I quickly scope out all the eligble women (I filter out the grandmas-moms w/3 kids-stressed middle manager types, etc) and make believe that they all work at the same MP and I have to choose one on the spot for a half hour of fun.

passes the time

 

[Tainted Love]

lol but the stressed middle manager might give great mileage.

 

[Dinah]

Sure does !!! When spending alone-time with the SO and there is that period of quietness, thoughts can wander towards the hot MPA who gave you a mind-blowing session or the MPA who gets a salute out of Mr.Happy at the very sight of her. As VBB said, "we are only human". Then I just look at what I have and realize the importance of it.

The thoughts usually go out of control when I'm at Square One and such. Everytime I scope an attractive woman, I started asking/telling myself "what the chances that she is an MPA ?" or "she has a body built for sliding". That's when I realize I should start cutting down on this hobby.

 

[TahoeT]

Well I'm glad I haven't hit the point of picking potential MPAs from the mall or the subway. Anyone ever say to their SO "can I just have a NR or BS tonight?" LOL.

 

[Chris Hansen]

I'm too scared to say that ... just thinking about where it could lead to gives me the chills. Women talk about everything !!! It could become a topic of conversation between my SO and her female friends at work and one of those friends then decides to give her a history lesson on the origins of BS and NR. Then I'm in deep shit.

The SO then comes home and starts interrogating me. What can I say .... I crack under pressure sometimes. Some things are better left unsaid.

 

[Christopher S]

that's hilarious tlm but actually there's 2 words you can use to describe a slide that are more technical terms.... outercourse being one and another one that sounds like frossage or something like that. A friend of mine, she works at a sex clinic and she told me about that term.... hmmmm maybe I'll ask her again.

 

[kathy]

Frottage. Look it up in Wikipedia. Also, for laughs, check out Wikipedia's entry for "Mammary Intercourse"

 

[Taufiqur]

MI sounds so much nicer than TF. But a bit clinical. How do you guys ask for a MI/TF from your SO, or is it not part of her repetoire?

Checked out Wikipedia and here are some of the slang terms..... they are hilarious

tit-fucking or titty-fucking (United States, United Kingdom)
tit-wank (United Kingdom)
Russian (U.S. sex workers)
Pink (or White) Elephant (U.S.)
diddy ride (parts of the United Kingdom)
dutch fuck (parts of the United Kingdom)
Sausage Sandwhich (parts of the United Kingdom)
Dutch fucking
Bombay roll
Boob-Sex
Boob Fucking
motorboating
milkshake
hot dog
minnowing (a term that has been gaining much traction in the southwestern United States)
pigs in a blanket (Northwest Washington, DC - United States)

 

[jhesed]

My grandmother used to serve pigs in a blanket at sunday dinner.

 

[harmonograph]

I like to use the term Butter Bust Jerky !!!

Depends on if it is or if it isn't yet on the menu, plus you need the right equipment.

I usually say one of the following:

"Would you like it between your tits?"

"I'm going to slide my big fat cock between those lovely melons of yours nice and slowly until I'm ready to give you some sweet chin music".

"I am going to fuck those lovely juggs of yours and squirt my man-cream all over them and your face".

"I know you want it and I know where you want it so resistance is futile."

"Oompah Loompah Dippity Doo, I'm going to spray your titties with goo, Oompah Loompah Dippity Dee, hopefully I won't cum so hard I don't pee".

"Please"

VBB

 

[AK Pride]

You gotta be classy in your approach ... offer her a glass of wine and then gently say "My cock is really itchy ... Can I rub it between your tits ?" Always works for me.

Being serious for a moment, it really depends on the mood of the SO.

 

[Jasclas]

A page from a slidress;

When I was indy I remember my sliding encounters caused my non-sliding encounters to become nothing more than a wam bam thank you, (sir?). It made me somewhat cold to gentleman outside out of not allowing anyone to get too closely involved in my personal life. Than again I was mildly paranoid and up tight about people getting involved in my life.
Anyhow, for myself I did find sliding really opened up my creativity when it came to making love. Out of the constant practice of finding some new, creative ways to perform during sliding sessions i'd say my sexual imagination and creativity has been greatly enhanced -like a software update!

I used to also find that during sexual encounters with men in my personal life sometimes my mind would get locked in "working" mode and I would have the urge to ask if they wanted extra! Or, I would have to remind myself that I wasnt getting paid! LOL

 

[bubbleyumm]

LOL !!

Well ... I guess that would answer some massageplanet.netITE questions on MPAs and their personal encounters with guys outside of the industry.

- "Would you like me to give you some 'extra' service ? "

- "Huh?", "What more is there to going all the way?"

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- "So are you going to pay me now?"
- "??? I just paid for your drink and this hotel room. What else am I supposed to pay for ?"

lol