Does appearance/ attraction make a difference?

[cateaway]

Hi just wondering does appearance / attraction make a difference to the way you act on a punt or how the WG is with a client . I know that obviously if some one turned up dirty / scruffy they maybe told to go away but does the way someone looks physically affect effort levels. Are WG the same with every client or do they put more effort in if they find the client attractive. Also vice versa if the client is ugly / fat etc is there less need to try and hurry it all along to get it over with. I'm not searching for ego boost or people to feel sorry for me but worry that a WG would be disappointed .

 

[Hop]

Good topic cheshirecat

I would be inclined to think that if a guy turned up that a WG found attractive, there would be that extra spark there which would result in a more favourable service to someone who a WG did not find attractive.

However, i think what may be more important for a WG is attitude and cleanliness. If you have a cheesy wotsit and an attitude like Naomi Campbell- i think that would definitely make a difference- in a negative way that is!

 

[annie n]

I do not treat anyone differently based on appearances, I try to give 100% everytime. if someone is less attractive than another doesnt really matter to me personally as long as they are Reviewiendly, clean and respectful.

I have heard of clients turning up and telling a WG thats she isnt his type though..which I think is a bit harsh! and also saying it in a very hurtful way.
So Reviewom a guys point of view..if you visited a girl who had no face pics on, and she wasnt what you expected how would that affect the punt for you?

 

[Havocsangel]

That was going to be my next question Cherry. Having yet to take the plunge i can only go on what has happened before when meeting women in general.I don't have a type as such but providing there is that little something then I will try 100%. Choosing a punt I would have a certain idea if I'm attracted as I hope I would of seen some form of pic. A women figure can be just as attractive as her face.

I remember a few years ago I met a girl who had a body to die for , totally amazing yet the face of MR ED, I didn't turn her away in disgust or offer a sugar cube I tool her to bed a smash her all night and it was a good night .
For a man to turn up at a punt and look at the lady like she has poo'd in Reviewont of him is just disrespectful and the fella does not deserve the punt .

 

[waq4500]

My favourite working lady is not conventionally attractive. She is nothing like my normal type, but she was the only lady Reviewee the first time we met.
She is however, extremely Reviewiendly, patient (which I find important) and rally makes me feel comfortable. I am so glad that there was not another lady available as I could have made a mistake. For me, looks are certainly not everthing.

She also has the ability to suck a golf ball through a hosepipe, but that is neither here nor there

 

[Betty Spaghetti]

Sadly it does happen Cheshirecat, I wonder sometimes what guys expect a lady to look like!? Do they want Cheryl Cole to answer the door? Elle Mcpherson maybe?
I am a size 14/16 and have had guys ring and say they thought i was going to be slimmer than that lol well you did look at the pics mate! and read the profile to get the number so maybe specsavers is what you need!

You can be polite if a girl isnt what you expected afterall its your hard earned cash that your parting with, but being nasty is not on! and as also said if she has a killer body and great personality that makes the meet something to remember

 

[jESSIKAxANTHE]

There is just no point in being nasty, you just have to think I'm here now , she is giving up her time and has made the effort so I should at least give it a try. As said before she may have skills ( such as sucking through a hose pipe ) that you only dreamed of.
As at times I have no standards I remember another girl I met once we had spoke on the phone , had phone sex etc and she was filthy . When I met her she was big I mean massive but I thought sod it I'm here we had built it up . Anyway the sex was amazing she sucked me off 3 times before she would let me near her pussy . Seems fat chicks so try harder lol .

Cherry have you ever made the extra effort cos the guy was attractive ? I know you said u treat all the same but there must be little discrimination .

 

[SureThingBATMAN]

Now I have a confession to make....

I work on instinct, which I guess means that if I find a guy attractive I am probably a little different with him. I mean, I give everyone the best I can without really having to think about it, but with I guy I connect with... yea, it's bound to be different. Not deliberately, but it's just nature taking over a bit.

But here is the thing.... I am what you might call sapiosexual (look it up!) so looks aren't really important, it is more to do with who the person is.

Does that make sense?

 

[jrsmallz88]

Yes I suppose if I am more turned on by the guy then yes I let myself go a little more but that isnt always down to appearance could just be we have a connection and get on really well...ok im swerving the question lol if the guy IS really attractive i kind of feel awkward...and i dont know why?lol i have seen a guy that really loved himself! he was quite fit, but ive seen better...but he did insist on telling me how good he was and wanted me to tell him to...so i keep the lube out when he is round is to get his head through the door

And trinity it does make sense 100% coz thats how i am

 

[bookworm21]

To me looks are simply not important as you can't judge a book by it's cover. What matters the most if the client/working girl click, have a laugh and feel so relaxed.. I go with the personality and sense of humour to me these are vital and I so hate it when clients go around saying "oh your not my type" or " your fatter than I expected" these comments hurt and can make the girl feel so uncomfortable about herself... after all both working girls and clients are human... it boils down the word "respect"

-steps off my peddle stoal-

 

[Hotch]

To me looks are important. I enjoy having sex with pretty women and that is why I punt. Of course that becomes very subjective but there is lots I find attractive about women. I don't expect everything to my ideal, and my ideal changes depending on my mood.
However I do my research before I make a booking and generally don't get it wrong.
I have visited establishments and found the ladies do not match descrpitions given over the phone. If I don't find any attraction I have no problem leaving - they should have been more honest in their description.
I did once visit an indie whose pictures I had seen on her web site. On arrival she was somewhat larger than is my preference. I had a good session anyway. On later refelection I think she had the pictures posed to make her look slimmer.
I do believe pictures should be accurate, accepting that anybody will wnat to show themselves in the best light!

 

[satty jr]

Well this is the thing isn't it. We all want our pictures to be the best we can get. Not in order to deceive anyone, but us girls are a bit self-image obsessed and hate unflattering pictures of ourselves... even if other people tell us they are good... if we don't like them ourselves then we aren't going to post them are we. And if they show the bits we are self concious about then we will scrap them.

My personal view is that I don't like photoshopped pics or pics which are too professional. I would rather a guy tell me that my pictures don't do me justice...

xxx

 

[inlove7]

To me looks arent important it all about personality and whether you actually click with someone.

I have opened the door in the past to some of the hottest looking guys and initially thought wow get up them stairs for it to end up being a disaster no spark or connection at all. Then on other occasions have opened the door and thought ohh god no only to find out that the gent was lovely and we had a great time.

My motto now is never judge on looks alone

 

[lina]

It must have an effect.

 

[Debi]

Why?

You've got a load of girls here saying it doesn't, so why do you think it does?

 

[Lou]

I can see the point that it would make the experience for the WG better but At the end of the day it's a job to the WG and just like any normal motivated person if they enjoy the Job they make the effort all day every day .

 

[Lebeautemps]

Looks are not a vital thing... look into the soul and then judge a person.. don't just judge a woman or a man at face value

 

[???????????]

Doesnt make it better for me, I feel more awkward during the meet, and self concious...dunno why I just do

 

[jms043]

To be fair I think I would be the same , I don't consider myself to be conventionally good looking and I carry a few extra pounds. I will probably Revieweak out if the escort is stunning but then is that nit half the thrill of punting ?

 

[Tyler Durden]

Sorry but I always respond the same to personality v looks is that you can't tell a personality Reviewom looking or even a brief met, but looks you can see across a dance floor.

I am lucky I have never seen a girl I didn't find hot, maybe not a stunner but still hot. and I would always make sure I see a picture first so a I have a good idea, than if I find a good personality to match the looks well happy days!!!

Saying that if the personality is crap then looks don't matter, the two hottest girls I have seen have been the worst punts!!

But I can't judge on anything but looks to start with, and if I defo don't fancy a girl the best personality won't change my mind.