I had to laugh when I read your post, Mel N. Choly. And not at you by any means but I could distinctly hear her voice, using those words to you! It seems that when I call some Asian spas (and I call many!), the ladies' seem abrupt and come across as rude and I don't believe that they mean to. And Cathy would be the type to come across that way.
Saying that, I've known this gal for many years. I have become more than just a client by now and when she wishes to see me, she calls and I head over when possible. I don't believe that this will be YMMV, as I remember my first time to be fun also. But times are different at EBC these days and I know that the spas are most cautious.
Cathy is approx. 40, in great shape and I have a great time with her. For me by now, most everything is on the menu. Sorry, but I do not go into details. Suffice to say, I am still going back after many years. She does not know me by SKIBUM, so I can't tell you to tell her that I sent you. Chushan asked and I replied to his request.