Ever saw a MPA outside the MP?

[OldPilot]

I noticed this thread some time ago but I could not find it now. Just my 2 cents. I think I saw a MPA in street clothing today on - the subway. However, I never saw that MPA in street clothing before and I was pre-occupied with the thought, 'she must be able to afford a car!'. I could not tell if it's her.

 

[Danielle S]

Posts like the one above scare me. They have a stalker like aroma to them. We should just stick to discussing the girls in their MP, not asking about who has seen whatever MPA in street clothes.

 

[Deaner 2.0]

Rusty, I have long enjoyed your irreverent comments. Now, I have a new reason to appreciate your posts! I fully share your concern.

 

[LinkLover]

I can see where Rusty is coming from, but I wonder if the subject doesn't call for a little more exploration. Not from a stalker viewpoint, but more in the line of etiquette...

You run into your favourite MPA in the grocery store. Do you say hi? Or do you respect her right to have a private life, and just smile and keep moving? I would probably do this, especially if she was with her boyfriend/husband/kids.

From the MPA perspective: you run into a regular client at the mall. Do you ignore him?

I have often wondered what would happen if I ran into an MPA I know while I'm getting some groceries in Chinatown (not a completely unlikely scenario!), especially if I'm with my GF...I hope the MPA would be professional enough to ignore me if I was with another woman...

 

[Magic But Mediocre]

SO WHAT ???

I earn 6 figures!
Sometimes I take the subway too!
(Depending on where I have to go that day)

Its fast from where I live, and cheaper than jockeying for parking from those ripoff artists.

Get a grip.

Bone

 

[Pompal 09.]

This has happend to me!!
I saw an mpa that i have been to 5 times...so i know her soso?
She was with her g/f's and we were at a club down town
I wanted to say hi.... but I just couldn't ....well because just maybe her friends don't know what she does....and if i was with a g/f i wouldn't want her coming over to say s'up!
so we made eye contact and we both smiled ....she gave me a node ..like hey come say hi. I waited till she was by her self and went over and stood next to her... just close enough that no one would think think i was trying to pick her up or somthing... she asked me if it was ok to buy my a drink...I siad no but i'll buy you one she smiled and we went to the bar and had a drink.... she then asked who i was with (just a bunch of guy's) ... So we hung out all night together. danced and had drinks ...Had a great time!

It turned out for the bad .......in the end.
After that night it wasn't the same when i went to her for a rub!
she told me she was into me and would like to date..... This sounds good at 1st ... but ...... how the hell could i date someone that does what she does ...... not for me....... It's too bad she is a great girl but not one i would bring home to Mom!!

 

[valdizzle]

... have you ever managed to track Tarah down in civies?

Just jokin' Humble buddy. Sorry!

I think Rusty is right. Who cares ... and if you do

If you bump into an MPA outside of the Parlor (damn I like bumping into them in a Parlor!) ignore her, unless she can't resist you and is all over you (i.e. let her make the first move).

Monkeylove 101

 

[Kerozene]

I have no intention of following anyone, just wanted to raise a point or two to talk about.

 

[La vida es buena!]

If I see an MPA in public I usally ignore them even if they are a favorite.... It could prove to be a rather uncomfortable moment. You don't know who they're with ...maybe a parent, boyfriend or their kids. I figure do the ladies a favor and avoid the posible embaresment!! I would won't one of them comming up to me when I'm with my wife or mother....
Do the ladies a favor and ignore them, remember they most likley don't want to talk to you at that time.... If you want to talk to the ladies book a session, pay and they will be happy to talk to you, otherwise smile and walk by - They will appriciate the consideration!!!!
Don't worry about what there up to ...

 

[nick O]

Hhm, Hhm...

...your hypocrisy is showing!

Perry

 

[Peng]

Hypocrisy , how Im i being someone i'm not?
if you trully loved someone and wanted to date....how could you respect them if they cheat on you eveyday at work?
I'm in the hobby not to fall in love ....but to have a good time...
Over time it would drain even the best of us. don't you think?

just IMHO...

 

[As_It_Is]

It seems I may have traumatized you Rusty, the other day, when I interrupted your workout at the gym, but I only wanted to show you my new harness

I'm sure the guys at the gym will understand that I just wanted to please you.

 

[Rachel]

She was a dancer when I met her, and then she started massaging. I was a little put off at first, but it didn't change our relationship in any way. We eventually split up. but the dancing/massaging had nothing to do with it.

As for meeting an MPA on the street, its the same with a Dancer, or a SP... if they are with some one, ignore them, just like you'd hope they will ignore you if you are with some one. I remember some interesting times, being out with my GF, and she sees one of her customers, with what is propably his GF. You could see him squirm, and do what ever it took to get away from the situation. Made for a good laugh.

 

[joebloe]

Spastar: You comments do come across as being hypocritical, you just don't realize it. I am assuming the attendant you are refering to is from a "clean" and licensed spa (i.e. these ladies do not offer BJ or FS). If this is the case then how could what they do be called cheating. Conversely, if you are frequenting these spas and ladies and not going for BJ or FS then you are not cheating either. The hypocracy comes from thinking what she does is cheating and what you do isn't when its the same service.

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I've never bumped into a MPA out and about. How I would handle it all depends on the situation. If you or they are with someone else (or a group) respect each others privacy - maybe an acknowledging smile and nod if you catch each others eye but that's it. If you are both alone and just happen to bump into them (unexpectedly and accidentally) be friendly about it but don't go out of your way to strike up a converation with her. Most of the attendants out there offer a "Fantasy Experience" during the session (making you think you're the only one in the world). Buy into it during the session but don't expect it outside of the spa. If she comes up to you to strike up a conversation then reciprocate with the expectation that its only a conversation similar to bumping into a neighbour, colleague, or old school buddy. Whatever the situation - NO STALKING!

If she asks you out then why not go for it. Most of the attendants I met are great ladies that I'd go out with. I would be cogniscent of the money for the first few dates to see if it is a genuine relationship (girl offering to buy you a drink seems pretty geniune to me).

 

[Diana!!!]

Jaded, I go to Rusty's gym and was there that day. I understood that you were trying to make him happy but I talked to some guys there while in the shower later and they weren't so understanding.

As far as this thread is concerned, I would never think of approaching a MPA is they are with someone. If we are both alone, I would let her make the first move. Never would I start a conversation.

 

[Glossy Hair]

I was waiting for one of my regular mpas Friday night.We were walking to the room when one of her regulars came in.She told him nicely that she would not massage him ever again.She asked him to leave.
In the room I asked her why.She told me that she was at a local mall with her mother and daughter.This guy walked by her and called her by her MPA name.She ignored him and he insisted that he knew her and still called her by her MPA name.Her mother and daughter asked her why he was calling her this strange name.
After a few dirty looks he got the picture and walked away.She explained to her daughter that he had the wrong person.

She was pissed because there she is with a young girl and an older lady and he is going on calling her by her MPA name.Well,she will never massage him again........LOL

 

[jiggles]

That's sad. I've heard similar stories of guys approaching MPA's out in public, even when they are with boyfriends. It's just rude and inconsiderate. Can't blame her being angry in this case and sending him away at all.

 

[skmathew67]

Originally posted by WhoIsYourDaddy?
Spastar

How is what mpa's do at work everyday cheating?
Many do not provide oral and fs

Are you Married? If so would it be ok if i came over and gave your wife a nice massage?....I would give her a real nice bs.............. i think not! wouldn't that be cheating?.... I think so. No disrespect meant to ya by the above remarks
And no I'm not talking about bj's or fs.

 

[Yahzmin (US) (???)]

My comment has nothing to do with cheating. What is cheating, after all? Going to an MP or SP or hiding it or lying to your SO about it?

What if the MPA/SP is single, who is she cheating on? What if her SO knows, who is she cheating? Or, if you are single?

My comment had to do with your implicit "holier than thou" assumption. You place yourself above her -- you said you would not date her -- because she is doing HJ's or whatever... yet you are the one who is getting the HJ's!

BTW, that does not make you a bad guy... as I said in another thread, hypocrisy creeps into our thinking without our even realizing it.

If the SP or MPA is "good enough" to perform these services and you go there for them, how can you reject her because that is what she does?

Perry