First Time @ Perla

[NoSkillz]

First time using this forum but looking for some advice. I have an appointment at Perla this week with Jennifer and it's my first time ever going to any massage place. Anything important I need to know when I get there I'm extremely nervous because I don't know what to expect.

 

[Jmac]

Be clean as can be. Leave tips for extras. And let the session warm up even though you may be ready to go/come from hello.

From the reviews here, Jennifer will take care of those nerves.

Then of course leave a short and sweet review here.

 

[LostInnocence]

Jennifer is a sweetheart. You couldn't find a better woman to have your first session with.

Bring mouthwash - I don't know why they don't have it in all of the spas. But Jennifer is likely to be kissing you so you want fresh breath or it will be a turnoff and your session won't be quite as special as it might be.

Jennifer is very petite, so I hope you're into that. She can provide either a high energy session or a slower, more sensual one. Let her know what you like and then enjoy.

Oh, learn a phrase or two in Spanish, and whisper it in her ear. Besos is kisses, one of her favourite words. My favourite line was "Mi gusta quando haces eso" which means "I like it when you do that." Pick something that suits you, go to Google Translate, and learn it.

 

[topo112]

Be nice, and respectful, you treat them nice and they'll treat you nice too. Be an asshole and you will never get extras or a good session.

 

[King Arthur]

I wouldn't worry too much about warming up or being nice. Take that too far and the girl might think she get out of the session not doing anything. I never waste time on massaging and I let the girl know what I'm there for pretty quickly. Never had a problem. If I was more than ten minutes into a session and the girl didn't have her mouth full it'd be a problem though.

 

[Jmac]

I wouldn't worry too much about warming up or being nice. Take that too far and the girl might think she get out of the session not doing anything. I never waste time on massaging and I let the girl know what I'm there for pretty quickly. Never had a problem. If I was more than ten minutes into a session and the girl didn't have her mouth full it'd be a problem though.

You must be really good looking if you get to the bj that quick.

But really, how do you communicate that? Even in first sessions?

 

[Whiteboy]

First time using this forum but looking for some advice. I have an appointment at Perla this week with Jennifer and it's my first time ever going to any massage place. Anything important I need to know when I get there I'm extremely nervous because I don't know what to expect.

You're going to a great lady lady especially for your first visit. She is friendly and will make you feel as comfortable as possible. Not to mention she is gorgeous and one of the best bodies you may ever see! She is one my favourites at pure. Don't go in there to cocky though like King Arthur says. Treat her with respect and she will return respect to you. Good luck. Have fun!

 

[King Arthur]

You must be really good looking if you get to the bj that quick.

But really, how do you communicate that? Even in first sessions?

Take control from the start, tell her what I want. A few girls won't like it but most do. It's not because I'm good looking. If it doesn't work out on the first session I don't repeat.

 

[Whiteboy]

Take control from the start, tell her what I want. A few girls won't like it but most do. It's not because I'm good looking. If it doesn't work out on the first session I don't repeat.

I guess this is why you call yourself a king! Do you get the girls in the room to call you one too!

 

[King Arthur]

You don't have to be an asshole to tell the girl what you want. If you're going to Perla the girls stay busy and make money by doing extras. They don't care if you're good looking and they don't respect you. They want to make money and they are there to get you off no matter how you look. Tell them what you want and if they want your money and they want you to repeat they will do it.

 

[Whiteboy]

You don't have to be an asshole to tell the girl what you want. If you're going to Perla the girls stay busy and make money by doing extras. They don't care if you're good looking and they don't respect you. They want to make money and they are there to get you off no matter how you look. Tell them what you want and if they want your money and they want you to repeat they will do it.

There are girls that do and girls that don't. Some have standards. Some don't. I
Personally stay away from the ones without standards if they're sucking every cock that walks in the place. I have been with girls that have great reviews on this board that I thought were not worth all the hype and others that should get more hype. Don't be filling up this guys first trip with. Bunch of bullshit thinking that If he walks in there with the "macho" attitude that he's gonna get whatever he wants. They're not escorts!

 

[King Arthur]

There are girls that do and girls that don't. Some have standards. Some don't. I
Personally stay away from the ones without standards if they're sucking every cock that walks in the place. I have been with girls that have great reviews on this board that I thought were not worth all the hype and others that should get more hype. Don't be filling up this guys first trip with. Bunch of bullshit thinking that If he walks in there with the "macho" attitude that he's gonna get whatever he wants. They're not escorts!

Whatever floats your boat but youre kidding yourself if you think sessions have anything to do with getting the girls respect. They don't respect you or any other guy in that place and if they werent sucking multiple cocks every day they wouldn't be in business especially not at Perla. They all take massive amounts of dick. Adding or subtracting a couple doesn't make you special or mean she respects you. It's a drop in the ocean for these girls. And the girl that tells you she doesn't usually do it respects you even less for believing her b.s.

 

[Ursus]

Its not about being good looking. It is about asking for what you want.

I get offered more free sessions than I can remember and it has nothing to do with looks.

 

[Whiteboy]

Whatever KING! I really wonder if you're that tough when you walk in the room with them. And if you are I'm sure that the girls are really happy to see you on a second visit. Lol. Do they pay YOU to suck you off?

 

[King Arthur]

It's not about being liked. The girls are not there to like you that's why you're paying them. They are there to service you because that's how they make money which is what they actually like. You can sit an eat popcorn with the girl if you want but she still won't like you, shes just there for the money. Sucking dick is one of the main ways these girls make their money. They suck more dick in a month that most girls will in a lifetime. They are there for money only.

 

[Jmac]

The thing is, I wouldn't want to take the chance of wasting my 150 by rubbing her the wrong way and then the rest of the session is with attitude and restrictions.

But I get your point. If money wasn't a factor I'd say the same to a first timer.

 

[DickSlinger]

The thing is, I wouldn't want to take the chance of wasting my 150 by rubbing her the wrong way and then the rest of the session is with attitude and restrictions.

But I get your point. If money wasn't a factor I'd say the same to a first timer.

Complain if they don't treat you right. Its your right as a customer. Shouldn't matter if the whore is cranky.

 

[King Arthur]

The thing is, I wouldn't want to take the chance of wasting my 150 by rubbing her the wrong way and then the rest of the session is with attitude and restrictions.

But I get your point. If money wasn't a factor I'd say the same to a first timer.

She could also be restrictive with a guy who she thinks is a sucker who takes whatever. There are girls who say next time everytime. Then there are girls who actually want to keep clients satisfied. Take it slow if that makes you feel better but eventually tell them what you want. Personally I've had a better success rate telling the girl to start sucking early in the session. It's not the first thing I do but if the girl knows what will make you happy she'll probably oblige. It's part of her job and she wants to make money.

 

[DickSlinger]

She could also be restrictive with a guy who she thinks is a sucker who takes whatever. There are girls who say next time everytime. Then there are girls who actually want to keep clients satisfied. Take it slow if that makes you feel better but eventually tell them what you want. Personally I've had a better success rate telling the girl to start sucking early in the session. It's not the first thing I do but if the girl knows what will make you happy she'll probably oblige. It's part of her job and she wants to make money.

Most of these whores lazy. Most times body slide is the bitch lying on your back dead weight. They'll all swindle you if they can

 

[hamsuplo]

I haven't been a member here for too long so my voice of reason may not be respected as those who have been on this forum for ages.

Seeing different MPAs will allow you to figure out what each girl likes/dislikes. Although they are sex workers and are putting up a front 100% of the time, you'll find out very soon which girls you click with and ones which you don't. Girls that click with you will enjoy the domination aspect of the demands that you make.

Seeing as though Jennifer has rave reviews from multiple members of the forum, I think you should go with what those have seen her have said: take it step by step, let her take the lead and you guide her in terms of what you like. You can definitely be pushy right when you walk into the door and tell them to suck your dick, but understand that although they're sex workers, they are people too, and people have feelings and emotions. Don't think that because you're paying for a service, you're entitled to be a certain service level. I guess you can look at it akin to: walking into a retail store and demanding something from an employee, vs. asking for something from an employee; you're going to get shitty service until you leave the store if you go the former route, and that employee will be talking shit about you to their fellow coworkers.