frustration..

[nickdc1960]

My last two visits to MP's have been disappointing, enough to make me think twice about me keeping this as a hobby.

Saw Tia over at Alden last week and she kept leaving the room, the second time she left, the other girl came in and asked if I was a cop!?!?! The first time I was there, Nancy spelled everything out for me, these extras for this price.. after everything was settled, Tia came back in and proceeded straight for the finish... afterwards, she was nice and understanding about our little miscommunication, but I still see it as hard earned money squandered...

tonight, I was over at Toh Far and had a session with Sophie, after a few minutes, she gets called out of the room, no problem, I can accept that. But when she comes back, she's all upset because she had 5 clients asking for her, she was pretty pissed that everybody was asking for her, so she sent them all away except for one, who was a regular (it was you, wasn't it tinop?)..

anyways, the coles notes version goes as follows... I got a rather nice but distant BS, but after a couple minutes she went for the standard finish, again, I felt cheated..

I'm not cheap, but I like to know that I spent money on something that I'm not going to regret and I regret these last two..

Repeat with Tia? highly unlikely.
Repeat with Sophie? I don't know, maybe if there wasn't a crowd asking for her..

man, I need a beer!!

P.S. I apologize for the tone of this post, but I am really disappointed..

 

[skymodog]

I strongly agree with you when we pay out good money for the service and yet there were very little consideration from some MPAs who constantly answer either the phone or the door.
My thinking is, since they don't respect me as a client, then, I would be a fool to go back. In some cases of returned visits, I spelled out the condition up front: that is no phone call nor answering the door.
Good luck next time.

 

[vanhammer]

Dude Abides, I totally feel your frustration. I've have had similar experiences like that, not to the extent that you had to go through though. This is why I stopped going to MPs at night. MPAs are watching for LE more-so in the night and crowds start to draw cuz everyone off of work. This is why I go during the afternoon, say between 1-3pm. In general, I noticed a huge difference in service, I am rarely rushed, and seems like MPAs are more tentative and receptive. Anyways, don't think it as money squandered but a lesson learned. Take care.

 

[Angry:(]

sorry, I meant to put a here... I don't want everybody to think that I'm being condescending in any way!!

 

[Kati]

Lately I've been getting lots of answering the door, sniffing, chewing gum, and even burping. Give me a break!!!!!

 

[Raweetawan]

I feel your pain Dude Abides...

My last few outing to MP were nothing stellar either.
Sometimes it is because of poor customer service on the LF part, other times I find the whole thing a bit boring.

Before, I would go at least once a week.
Now it is probabally closer to once a month.

I am beginning to wonder if it is just me getting tired to this hobby.
Maybe now the bar is set so high that they are pretty unattainable.
Are there anyone else out there who is in the same boat?
Just wondering what you guys are doing about it.

Sorry to be off topic and rambling.
Self reflection always bring me down.

 

[Breeze M]

the only one MWC...I use to frequent mpa and escorts about once a week...over the years it has slowed down...but after findind this board and reading about cleanliness and attitude and price...and so on...I have cut down a lot

...nor am I into taking one for the team...I use to go more when there wasn't a team around...and the horror stories are astounding...but all in all...I hang out here for awhile to keep on top of the happenings and may venture out...but I feel like a hibernating bear...

 

[Alondraa]

This has worked for me a couple of times when I am not getting the level of service that I should.

You have to risk your basic fee, but it's always worked for me, most recently at the place on Bowes Rd.

If the lady is answering the phone during the session, very late to start it, or behaving in some way that really lessens your enjoyment of the session, (be reasonable guys, a sneeze doesn't count), then just stop the massage, tell her it's not working out and say ''thanks but no thanks". The few times I've done this it has worked like a charm. The attitude does a complete 180. The furthest I've gotten was to start putting on my pants (important tip, it helps your crediblity a lot if you don't have a hardon at this point ), before she saw I was serious, and talked me into staying.

 

[snowlilly23]

The beauty of this board is to avoid frustrating situations. We've all assembled so that we can let you know where to go to get the best "bang" for your buck.

Shit happens sometimes, but not just in this business. When you indulge in something it usually loses it's appeal after a while. I say take a little vacation from MPs and then book an appointment with your favourite.

You know what's funny. I had know idea that I was supposed to get my chicken choked at an MP. I even told her "If you don't stop I'm going to blow". I even went home thinking that she gave me an extra cause she liked me.

 

[rdenig_male]

Thanks for letting me vent..

I realize that with this business you have to expect some crappy service every now and then.. it's not (quite) like an assembly line, where you know the next widget off the line is going to be exactly like the one before it..

the best feeling that most of you guys get is finding that "hidden gem" and it takes sifting through a lot of sludge to get there sometimes..

anyways, I'll probably take some of the suggestions listed, like scaling back from once/twice a week to once every two/three weeks, go during the day and only visiting MPA's that have good reputations..

I'll let you all know the next time I've taken one for the team, count on it.

 

[darkmousyfan]

Wait till you get the "You come yet? Why you no come yet?". Thats almost up there with the sudden stop and listen, rush re-clothing and out the door job every 5 minutes. After having one of those, I tend to write off going to that place for a few months.

 

[Richard C]

For ever my friend. There are too many choices out there to go back for the chance of bad service!!!

 

[Mega T]

I usually go back after a while if the place is conveniently located and the place has decent turnover. Those girls who get stressed over a bird chirping across the street from the MP and do the quick reverse superman phonebooth move usually don't last long.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Just like you when she is on the run!!!

 

[Carly]

Stranger things have happened. I once got served by a waitress at a restaurant two weeks after she had dropped condiments on me at a Tex Mex restaurant across town. When she saw me, she gave me a "Don't worry, I'm normal now!" reassurance than it wouldn't happen again.

 

[Alexei]

That's my laugh for the day.
Re: boredom....It's like drugs..when you're bored you must escalate! Try Spanish Oral Delight..seems difficult to be bored there.