To get to know each other first? Are you paying for a service or looking for a wife? Any provider that asks me to get to know her before I pay her for providing me what she is advertising is not getting my business. I don't want to know her. Many ppl who use these services must exercise discrection at home and "getting to know her" isn't smart. At least not for me.
I've got no problem with her needing to verify who I am for her safety, but other than that, I'll save the small talk for in person.