Hi.
It took about 5 years for me to get to a point where I wasn't working steadily part-time while being at my business. Granted, I had a pretty interesting situation coming out of college. But, I can tell you that if you don't have money backing you, plan that it will take a long time and a lot of hard work to get to a point to where you don't have to work part-time anymore.
I am going to tell you something you may not like.
To be honest...i'm not marketing myself at the Y. I really dont like working at the Y. It was the first job offer I had so I jumped on it. But it's 44mins from my house and working on call is killing me.
If it's killing you and you don't like it, you can either leave or decide to make it work for you -- that is is only thing I can tell you. I'd suggest to start marketing at the Y, if you think you are going to have to be there a while.
I drive 45 mins. to work in the morning and 45 mins. back in the evening.
When I did outcalls for three years, I was driving 45 mins. to the call and 45 min. back anywhere from 8pm - 2am (that was at a hotel and on top of whatever work day I had already done or it was in between some clients during the day. My work day usually consisted of sporatic day hours // regular work minus the hotel out-calls could at 8am & ending at 9pm... while other days it may begin at 10am and end at 7pm... and then other days it may be something totally different ---- that was because I was juggling so many jobs to keep my business open).
Not everyone can do that kind of travelling, and it is a lot of wear and tear, but just to let you know, you aren't the only one and if you hang tough and get a fixed idea, you can make it! And it will pay off!
I have pulled a few links that may be helpful.
Starting a New Business
http://www.massageplanet.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=7582
Get A REAL Job!!!???? (Long Post)
http://www.massageplanet.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=9030
What are Common Second Business Careers of MT's?
http://www.massageplanet.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=10146
Hope this helps.