Get No Satisfaction.... A Man's Story

[GunnerRose]

So, I've been dating this girl for nearly 2 months and it has been perhaps the most disappointing 2 months of my life. I love spending time with her, going to shows, going out to eat for lunch, and just being around her. She's great, however when it comes to being intimate with her I'm sorely disappointed and typically "left hanging," (although it's typically quite the opposite of hanging) while she goes about her business and falls asleep.

We've had sex at least three times a week since we've been together, but I can count the number of times I've been allowed to finish on my fingers. Is this normal behavior, and if so, why the hell would a woman do that to a man? I've never been with a girl who wouldn't let me finish or at least even try to help the process along...

Other thing that bothers me is that I pretty much have to do all the work. She initiates sex almost every time, but when it comes to the actual performance, she wants the old fashion missionary position and she will not get on top to save her life. Unfortunately for me, that's probably my favorite position and I definitely get off better that way. I've communicated all of this to her and it still doesn't seem to matter...

What the hell can/should I do?

Any advice from anyone would be greatly appreciated!