You sound young, teens or early to mid twenties and your new to the hobby. First and foremost, I hope your not a hopeful romantic cause you really want to be with a girl like that? The hobby is for fun, relaxation.....whatever...just fill in the blank, but never forget, its bussiness. I have 2 friends in TJ, they work for the agencies, I have their numbers, and I text them whenever I am in town, but it is my secondary, personal number, a number I only use for the hobby. Make that your first priority if you want to give out your number or contacting a girl, if you have a lot to loose, then don't give out your regular number, get a secondary. This process avoids the whole unnecessary asking for money, etc....and if you do email a girl, make sure it's a secondary email just for the hobby, and yes I forget, like girls have new names when working, you should also have a new name on your email and what you tell the girls. Dont give out your real name.
Second lesson, it's a business, with my 2 friends, I give them 100 for about an hour to two hour session, and it usually involves a Greek experience, so yes I am getting a discount relative to what I would get charged if I went to the agency, but never forget it's bussiness.
Third lesson, if you do see a girl multiple times, make sure you wear the rubber all the time, every thime. When the girl gets comfortable with you, and especially when you care about them "getting theirs" too and not busting, you will get a better session, a true GFE, but you don't want to fall into bare knuckle busting.
If you do decide to get into contact with a girl, I find it that I text them once a week or so and ask how they are, and especially the week that I am going to TJ, I tell them how I miss them, their kiss, touch, etc....messages that I would send to my girlfriend. But trick is YOU MUST SEE THEM ATLEAST ONCE A MONTH OR EVERY MONTH A HALF..service is only good IF YOUR A VIABLE CASH COW. THIS HOBBY IS EXPENSIVE, SO YOU GOTTA HAVE THE BUDGET FOR IT.
THE FINAL AND MOST IMPORTANT LESSON, MAKE SURE YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND, OR SIGNIFICANT OTHER AT HOME, TO KEEP A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN REALITY AND HOBBY. I NOTICE WITH MYSELF THAT, RATHER THAN PUTTING IN THE EFFORT TO GET A GIRL OR DATE AT HOME, I HAVE THE MENTALITY THAT I CAN JUST BUY ONE. So please have a significant other at home or atleast date a lot of girls at home so that your game/skills are sharp, cause THIS IS NOT REALITY...JUST A HOBBY. Furthermore, the ladies that are in this hobby do a lot of stuff, that most girls won't do, so dont get mad or pressure your girlfriend into things that they normally don't do (I have to catch myself, when I am with my girlfriend)..cause when you do ask for new things just out of the gate...suspicion comes in hand, Best hunting