I was a veteran of TJ when on submarines many decades ago. I used to go to a couple bars off the main drag which were quiet and non pressured by the ladies. Enough history. I am intrigued by the 'wall' and maybe 'tj.com's I have read about here (what a great site). I get tired of the 'u by me drink' stuff (been there done that...). So the question is, can I have a good time with the 'wall' and go have a drink at the bars afterward, or would I miss out on the fun by not dealing with the Chicos in the bars? Money is not really the issue, it is the visit itself. Also, anything on advance '.com' choices would be interesting to me. Plan to come daytime .