OK, here is what happened when I went back for the practical interview:
Red flags started going up when the MT started asking me questions like "How old are you?" "Are you married?" and "Where do you live?" How much more illegal can you get? She might as well have asked me if I believe in God or if I was gay! She was really young so I'm not sure if she was unaware of what she was doing and trying to make conversation, or if she was asking with intention. She seemed pretty well groomed by what they have going on there.
Then during the massage, she starts talking about the other services the business offers and how she is really doing 3-4 different jobs right now within the office (only one of them massage related) and how they are looking for someone to "cross train" so she won't be so overworked.
More red flags, and now I'm getting thrown off my focus and angry at the way she is turning things around. After all, I answered an ad in the paper for a "massage therapist in a physician's office".
The massage ends, she critiques me and then goes to confer with the chiro who I had also interviewed with this morning. He finally comes to get me and takes me to an office where he tells me they are going to make me an offer. Then he basically tells me I'm not very good at what I do but they will train me to massage the way his MT works.
I'm getting more and more leery about the whole deal at this point and so I ask some more questions to be sure he knows where I stand. I ask him about the "cross training" that the MT mentioned and tell him that I am really looking to focus solely on massage, and that if they have the need for the person in this position (only 20 hours a week) to be doing other work, I am not the best fit for the job. He then tells me that for the part time job, he is looking for 80-90% massage work and a little office help when no clients are scheduled and that a full time position would involve the "cross training".
Then he launches into the spiel on the promotions they do, (which occurs throughout the week, not just on Fridays as I was originally told). Basically they offer 30 minute massages to anyone who will come in for $15.00. There is a script the MT is supposed to read to get them to sign up for more services (which means they have to give their insurance card to the office to be photocopied).
Why wasn't any of that explained to me during the initial interview??? BEFORE they lured me back for a practical???
Then he leaves and is gone awhile and sends the MT back who shows me the script and explains the process to me and mentions again that they are looking for someone to "cross train". (HELLO?? The chiro just said that wasn't what the job entailed). So I mention AGAIN, that I am only looking for massage work and that I would not be the right fit if they have other needs.
At this point, the chiro bursts into the room (he had clearly been listening at the door) and says, "Alright then, let's all get on with our day!" So I thanked them and left.
I am just really disappointed, and the more I think about it, angry. This was a classic bait and switch. I felt like they were doing this whole good cop/bad cop routine sort of thing, the way they kept leaving the room to talk to the other and switching back and forth. It felt like they were trying to talk me into the job.
So my questions are: Is this kind of stuff standard? Did I do the right thing by not taking it? Clearly, I would not have been happy there. They were going to give me the job and had the papers written up and wanted to being "training" me this afternoon.
I'm just feeling like they thought I was an easy mark, and eager to take anything since I am just out of school. Maybe I am expecting too much from a job as a newbie. Should I "pay my dues" at places like this and see it as a learning experience? I have had three interviews in the past week and a half, and there has been some sort of deal breaker for me each time. Am I just being too picky, or going with my gut and holding out for what's right? I just don't know anymore. I'm really very discouraged at this point.
Thanks for listening to me rant, I hope this all makes sense.
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