Guilty Pleasures

[oh_jo123]

whats your opion? im in a relationship with children but my partners sex drive has vanished.

I don't want to pester her all the time for sex. i have used massage parlours before and had some great punts but felt a bit low afterwards.
Obviously i don't want to cheat but im not dead yet and want some fun which i aint getting at home!

I also get a thrill Reviewom going to a parlour but my misus would be hurt if she found out and i doubt she would ever forgive me! I relize im just been selfish but my missus holds all the cards and i need a good shag !I don't want to have an affair so what do i do?

 

[Feshe]

If your conscience can handle it then go for it. Just remember to have a cover story or two, cover all your tracks, always delete your internet browsing history and mobile call details. If you have a phone with switchable phone and sim contacts memory (I swear by them), then keep your chatting related numbers on the one you don't have as default.

 

[leelou]

Womens sex drives does go down some what after having children, it is quite natural.
I would try to get things back on track at home rather than seek stuff else where.
She may well not be as randy as she was before, but her love of sex will still be there, you just need to re kindle it.
Affairs are very distructive, so my advice would be to stay well clear of those.
You hold the cards as well as she does you know.

The paid sex scene of course serves a purpose.
Just cover your tracks well if you do visit us naughty ladies.

Lucy

 

[supersetter1989]

Sound advice Lucy.

 

[hydropowerman34]

thanks lucy i just get fed up of doing all the chasing it a vicous circle i guess !

 

[Pompal 09.]

Sound advice Lucy, I think you should become an agony aunt on here

 

[Pompal 09.]

My advice, fuck the missus, no really, after having children women don't lose their sex drive, its just their priorities change. So spend time with her and you'll be surprised how much she wants to fuck to.

 

[Alexandria]

Glad you aint my hubby x !!

 

[v.s]

What's this, are you feeling ok Bunny? I'd have expected you to have the caine out for this post.

 

[NoBodyyy]

Bang on

 

[Tigerspaw357]

That is one thing age has on my side, you get experience
I have been an unpaid counsellor in a past life.
The trick is to actually listen and not give advice at times.
Maybe I should take note of that comment more often myself!

 

[Pompal 09.]

Funny, that's exactly what she keeps saying.

 

[?Lil.Miss.Odd.Bodd ?]

difficult one for me to comment on as im a single guy, although one of the reasons i stay single, is my fear of what you just mention.

im sure it will come one day, but i cant imagine a time when i dont want to have sex regularly.

if i loved someone i dont think i could ever 'cheat' as it were, so avoid putting myself in that position - even though im sure there is some good stuff im missing out on.

as i said, no help at all im aReviewaid but i do agree with Lucys advice, and try everything you can to be 'with' the woman you really love - that sex usually turns out to be the best.

 

[Pompal 09.]

MMMMMM yes a bit slow on that one heres 2

 

[GraceMickaila]

i
When it comes to a regular relationship, it is said that men feel as if they must give a great deal to their partner in order to get a little something back. It does not matter what type of wg a man is hiring, what it comes down to is that when payment is made, the man is getting his wishes tended to.
A wg serves as a slave to a man’s needs. She is an actress, although to the man, he does not care that what he is receiving for his money is a one-woman play and an act that he gets to be nothing but a prop in. This is the man’s time to shine and get whatever sexual kink he has attended to–No questions asked and no need to reciprocate. A wg is sought out when a man wishes to let go and selfishly indulge in his desires without having to give anything back to the woman who performs for him.

 

[Dreamily]

Yes, you were a bit...

 

[Chocolate_eater]

I can sympathise with your dilema, but I think you probably have 2 problems. As you point out, there is the guilt feeling of cheating on your wife, but not actually wanting to hurt her or damage your relationship. This is difficult because you do not wish to lose your wife and family, but once you've tasted the delights of a girl that you think is pretty and can't say no, you just want to keep going back for more.
Secondly, there is the thrill of having sex and doing things with a young (or mature) different girl everytime you visit a parlour or working girl. Additionally, the girl that you visit is likely to do things that you've always wanted to do, but your wife might not offer ie oral sex, anal, doggie, 3somes . Once you've sampled something you've always wanted, with a girl that you think is sexy and attractive, you're lost, because at that point you know there is someone out there who will give you a fantastic time and full fill your sexual desire. The issue with this, is that if you indulge in this activity it is not a loving/caring realtionship but becomes a sexual need/desire/activity which is expensive, guilt ridden and satisfying (but only for a limited period), until the urge to visit comes again.
I don't think anyone can really help you. YOU must decide what you want and if the risk is worth it. If as you say, you don't want to hurt your wife and family, then the answer is obvious, don't have an affair. However, as you've already sampled the delights of the parlour, and probably made love with a girl that you never thought you would ever have a chance with, I would think, that you will continue to visit these girls. If this is the case my advice is to be careful, and don't get discovered, because the pain will be unbearable. Good Luck

 

[asap]

Life is short. Balancing your gain in happiness with the chance of hurting your wife is difficult. As a husband and father you can get used to not being selfish but perhaps this can be unhealthy for you and your family.

 

[i H.S.P.]

Good quote. Just one question. Said by who?

Some folk do love their wives; they also have vanishingly little sex. This can be down to illness, other stress, poor body image.

Sometimes finding out why, or giving things time to "work out" (which can run on Reviewom months to years), while at the same time being seen not to be pestering, or avoiding "you're only being nice because you want me to let you fuck me" can put a lot of strain on you.

Judge for yourself where you fall; try not to judge others. Here endeth the lesson.

 

[Candice W]

in response to said by who ! some bloke called Michael Bader whoever he is when he is at home i don't know?

Wasn't trying to judge ! If anything i was just looking for validation of my own actions. Of which i haven't recieved. Which has come as a shock and is very interesting........