i know im not a guy, but most of the guys i know (are not gay) but are really...physically affectionate...to their friends, gfs, etc. my best friend (that is a guy btw) does stuff like that all the time. some guys do that, most of the guys i know do. and none of them do it because they like me. they do it just cuz we're friends. ppl think we're weird..but we dc. one of my gfs bff's is a guy (and a sweetheart) and he'll do all kinds of things to make us all think he likes her, but their relationship is strictly just friends..he sees her only as a friend and gives her massages all the time...she never asks...and doesnt complain