Happy beginnings

[Yellowstonedogs]

All good advice. I have reversed things myself a few times. Sometimes it is nice to have the HE and then relax with a nice massage. Sometimes it is nice to relax and have the anticipation. It is much easier at a place you've been to so you are comfortable and they are also. As stated, be playful and ask and hold their hand and place it where you want it, smile and it should all go well from there.

 

[Old Folkie]

Bigcecil - that's my typical play at every R&T. When I go to the 2 spots a frequent, they already know I'm coming in for a double...one at the start and one at the finish. In my opnion, it makes the massage much more enjoyable because you're starting off relaxed. With the language barrier I typically lay on the back and tell her I want to go 2 times... give a little jerking motion with the hand and tell her I'll take care of her when we're done. I smile, wink and even take her hand if she's close enough. I also give at least an extra 20 on the tip if they give me the double to keep them happy and for me, it's worth the extra 20 for good services. Even if the massage is so/so, I'm still getting 2 shots off.

And following what Drumasss said, if I go for a table shower, I always bring it up there. When I go to my place in NJ, the TS is where number 1 usually happens...

Not sure where you planning on going but I know we've talked about H.C in Northampton... Haley has no problem with the double, even for the 1/2hr session.

Bottom line is if you don't ask, you'll never receive. I've been turned down before but I'm running at least an 80% win/loss rate.


Good luck my friend.

 

[Jac]

I have had success with starting face up a few times. It's usually met with a bit of a nervous giggle at first, but in the end it has worked the four or so times that I've tried it. Only once was I told to flip over onto my stomach first, but after about 5 minutes I got "the tap" and was told to flip. I guess it depends on the place. If a TS is to be had before hand...then I would certainly go for it.

 

[axftvhey]

Occasionally I would lie down on my back and make it clear what I wanted first - of course, that was in my youth when more than once an hour was possible.
If you don't ask - or push the issue - you will always wind up with the normal routine.

 

[PemHadayadall]

I'm wondering, at a typical R&T place, is it possible to also start out on a happy note and how would you go about making this happen (given the usual language issues). I have a pretty good connection with the one asian provider I see regularly, and think it would be possible, I'm just not sure how to go about it. I go into the room and lay down face down and it always is the typical massage treatment. Any suggestions?