How am I suppose to deal with the pain of my son being introduced to...

[Ann]

...another girl by his father? My sons dad and I broke up a year ago. We finally moved away from eachother a few months ago. I always told myself that I will never introduce our son to another man until that man means something to me...Today My sons dad told me that he is having company over when I asked if he would like to have a family night. I asked him if it was a female he said yes. My son is a very affectionate person. I dont want him being open with this girl. It hurts me to know that my sons dad has moved on, and hes introducing our son to other girls... I feel like our son shouldnt be meeting any random person. He has a dissability.. I just wanted him to maybe understand the situation more before he got introduced to new people in his life. And I dont want just any person in his life..
It just hurts me, how am I suppose to deal with it? should I tell his dad how I feel? when I asked him if hes bringing other girls around our son and laughs....
And mind you my sons dad went through my facebook and thought he saw our son with another man in a friends picutre and bit my head off. Is that jealousy?

 

[Max Armstrong]

From you said if he 'bites your head off' from what he thinks you're introducing your son to another man in your life then by him doing it with a woman - It's hypocritical of him. On top of that you didn't?!
So I think you have the right to say to him what you feel and insist your son doesn't meet this woman yet until you both think the time is right.
If he doesn't comply then introduce a man to your son as retaliation and if he complains well call him a hypocrite and ignore him.

Try and be nice about it all and don't call him a hypocrite at the first chance you get.

 

[Illusionist (illusionist)]

Don't worry about it. Just don't get into a fight with the other girls or the father- at least not in front of your son. But do ask what her relation is. And if he is seeing her, then he will need to get over hisself.

 

[pebbles]

I think he may just be annoyed, because of the fact that you don't want him around new people with him, but yet he has a picture with another man on his facebook. I understand where you're coming from, but I'm going to say this quite frank, you need to get over it that your ex husband has moved on. I'm pretty sure he understands how you feel, and he wouldn't introduce y'all's son to any random person. Usually when you start introducing people to family, there will be SOME longevity in the relationship.

 

[Vicki]

I unserstand your situation but it sounds like you are not over your sons dad yet buy besides that i don't think the dad would bring your som around just any random women...I believe u said this is a first time Nd of purse it's difficult but maybe she is someone special... He shouldn't beooking through ur Facebook though it kind if sounds like u guys are both confused....talk to him and make sure he isn't doing this to make u jelous and if he is it's time for u to move on and find a man that U can introduce to ur son....life goes on and ya random people shouldn't be introduced to ur son but if its someone special it's only natural it could be a good thing.