How can I chat confidently?

[confusedgirl999]

Tomorrow I have a BBQ and all my friends will be there including the person I fancy. I'm really nervous because all the time in situations like these I can't think of things to say and it's really annoying because usually I'm crazy helppp

 

[Catherine]

Don't think about it too hard. Remain close to where the action is and wait for people to talk to you. It will happen if you just remain open and friendly. Sometimes being overly polite is the best way to go.

 

[indokee]

Pray to the lord

 

[Wendy]

Stay calm, sound chill. be like hey whats up? (let them answer wait.. ) you answer, maybe ask how summer is going. after you're through with that ask are you up to anything today? if you aren't you should stop by im having a bbq thing at my house. if he says he can't be like well here's my number either way just call/text if you need directions .

Hope i helped in someway best of luck kiddo

 

[KorKor]

Find interesting things to talk about! Such as:

"Have you seen any movies lately?"
"I heard (insert interesting gossip here)."
" heard (insert big news here)."
"I have a song stuck in my head... it's so stupid."
Flirting to a woman -- "I wish I could as pretty as you tonight!"
Flirting to a man -- "I wish my muscles were as big as yours!" (That is if he's masculine.)