How can i find out if my fiance is chattin with other girls on chat sites?

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My fiance & I been together for 6 years & we have a beautiful 2 year old son, he cheated on me once in the past,it was the worst time of my life,but now he has a new phone & he's been experiencing every chat,game,or dating site there is! I caught him before on mocospace & I told him to delete it & he did..but then I found him on Flirtomatic & he says he won't lie or do that again..so when I came over his house to see him I went through his phone history & he's on mocospace again as a new user name.. looking at girls, I need help I know his user name his old user name was SpeedyG916,& his new one is Sohigh14. I confronted him & I asked him why the f* are u lookin at other females & he said "he don't know & that he does stupid shit when we aint with eachother & that just really made me think hard.. He said he'll change & this & that the same old story everytime. What should I do???

 

[LasVegasMOM]

this is deceitful but if you really want to know. create a fake profile on one of those sites.. with a picture of the type of girl he might like.... send him a message etc.

 

[sandra]

Look at the history on the computer and if you think you know his user name but don't know his passowrd click the forgot password? Try to hack it. Whatever works for you. If you have a strong relationship just ask him.

 

[Kumstained Sheets]

...find a pair of his under-pants... throw them at the wall...if they "stick" ! he's been chatt'n and maybe even cheat'n !

 

[Josephine]

Get on an actual computer, not a phone, and do some research. Lots of times, it's a simple matter of Googling his screen names - you already know two of the, and that's a good start. Google those and see what kind of profiles you come up with. Make fake profiles on dating sites and look up men that meet his criteria. Google his e-mail address as well. I think Google will turn up lots of information for you.

As far as what to do...I know you have a lot of time invested in this man and a child together as well, but if he never changes then why stay? Having the parents together isn't the be-all and end-all of a happy and healthy childhood; wouldn't you rather your son see you in a GOOD relationship? Or do you want him thinking it's okay to treat girls the way daddy treats mommy?

That's never easy to hear, but there you have it. I know it's hard, but you deserve better.