Mummy_to_one_and_bump
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A close friend of mine was recently deserted by her husband, he left her for another woman, who he got to know through work.
This woman is, quite frankly, a mess. Her own partner left her after sexually and physically abusing her for several years. There were also drugs involved I beleive. She had a nervous breakdown and kept attempting suicide, whereupon her three children were taken into care. She is now recovering from this ordeal and I believe she seduced my friend's husband as she is very lonely and needy - he's a very foolish man who was flattered by her attentions and has decided to dump his wife and two children and set up home with this woman.
He wants to introduce his children to his new partner, but my friend is afraid for several reasons. He's never been a very good dad, never had a lot of patience with the kids (my friend had to do most of the parenting herself) and given that his new squeeze is a veritable headcase whose *own* children have been taken away by social services, my friend is deeply worried about letting this pair get their hands on her kids!! Surely if this woman is not considered fit to care for her own children, she isn't fit to care for anyone else's either?
Is there any way that she can prevent her ex taking the kids to visit/stay with him and his new partner. Beleive me, she is not just doing this out of spite, she is geniuinely worried about what might happen to them in the care of this pair!!
We live in the UK.
This woman is, quite frankly, a mess. Her own partner left her after sexually and physically abusing her for several years. There were also drugs involved I beleive. She had a nervous breakdown and kept attempting suicide, whereupon her three children were taken into care. She is now recovering from this ordeal and I believe she seduced my friend's husband as she is very lonely and needy - he's a very foolish man who was flattered by her attentions and has decided to dump his wife and two children and set up home with this woman.
He wants to introduce his children to his new partner, but my friend is afraid for several reasons. He's never been a very good dad, never had a lot of patience with the kids (my friend had to do most of the parenting herself) and given that his new squeeze is a veritable headcase whose *own* children have been taken away by social services, my friend is deeply worried about letting this pair get their hands on her kids!! Surely if this woman is not considered fit to care for her own children, she isn't fit to care for anyone else's either?
Is there any way that she can prevent her ex taking the kids to visit/stay with him and his new partner. Beleive me, she is not just doing this out of spite, she is geniuinely worried about what might happen to them in the care of this pair!!
We live in the UK.