how do i know if shes leading me on or useing me as a free massage?

[joshieboya]

i really didnt like this girl who is one of my sisters best mates. we are the same age so i thought id see if shes as bad as i remeber. but shes not shes totally changed. so i started flirting she slept round mine and i started drawing on her legs and all that jazz cut a long story, she asked me to rub this moisture cream her legs ass and stomach right up high (hint hint but i didnt go that far =P). so i did ,but, she keeps saying shes smitten over this guy whos one of the ones that goes around fighting people, now i dont know iff she got the hint and was trying to let me know or if she just wanted a massage please need some good awnsers if i get i wrong ill prob get beaten up by one of the other lads chaseing her ( also just to add she has got a bit of a rep but i dont really care about that =P
the thing is i asked her out when we were younger and she blind face turned me down and it hurt i lost 5 stone in 3 and a half week 4 her then got rejected but that was near on 2 years ago so what do i do ? i dont wanna embarrse myself or let the opper tunitie go to waste

 

[Jessica]

she just likes attention and if she knows she can get it she will and if she doesnt she will do what she has to to get it. Girls hate rejection and thats how they will keep trying to pursue. Maybe just just needed a you to fill her spot that shes not getting from other people. If I asked for a massage it wouldn't be from someone that wasnt a potential something. and if you did pursue what you think she wanted she would prob have acted like a bitch anyway... girls are so complicated. good luck. dont let it get to you girls come and go.

 

[Hannah]

Just play it cool until you either have the guts to ask her or until you decide to go with the flow and see where things lead off to

 

[liquidsilicon]

if she likes a boy who is always fighting then she is pretty messed up, or maybe she just likes the idea of being beet up.
i dont think it will turn into a lifetime relationship so i would ignore whatever she says about a other boy, see if you can get her to give you a massage too

 

[cupcake]

Well you pretty much fell for her. She was kind of testing you. First she started flirting with you and she let you draw on her. Then she decided to see if you wanted her more than just friends. And this might sound mean but when she was done and tired of playing with you she tried making you jealous, trying to make you feel insecure and making herself feel valuable by making you think she has other guys chasing after her. And your add about her having a rep should be important to you because that means she will do the exact thing she has done to others. If you want, play her as much as she's been playing you but don't expect to get something serious out of it. Trust me it won't happen.

Good Luck

 

[Lux Marmont]

As much as I'd love a massage, I wouldn't let just any dude give me one. But you did say she has a rep..Who knows.

 

[imablaaze4life]

The best way to be is upfront. Just ask her. I'm sure you'll get your answer and it will shock the daylights out of her. That way - there's no wondering and second guessing for you.

 

[love]

Why dont you just ask her out the worse she can say is yes or no.