How do you ask ur gf if you can give her a massage without being awkward?

[Hethra]

I'm 22 my gf is extremely shy (like me) and I would like to give her a massage (something nice I can do for her that feels good) I have massaged her over her shirt, but never under. I don't want to make it weird, but I would like to give her a proper one with oils under her shirt on her back, etc. How should I ask this? what should I say?? I don't want her to feel awkward or anything.

 

[sircutch]

you can say,...hey did you like the message last time,or would you like another message? n if she says yes , then say oh ok well would you like me to use message oil?it feels awesome n i think im a lot better at proper messages then dry ones.it helps my fingers slide n caress better.......then u ask her where?and where ever it is do it there n this way when u wanna do it under her shirt ull have a great reference, it worked for me and i used KY message oil from CVS pharmacy its great for that stuff as well smells good.n u can ask her to go with you to pick a scent.it makes you look knowledgeable and shell like the time with you.as well as give her more time to prepare for it in case shes a bit shy about it at first.

 

[Waveshredder]

Don't ask her. Chill with her and while she's watching tv r something slowly get closer to her. Put your arm around her then start massaging her and it won't be awkward, but asking would probably make it really awkward haha hope this helps